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antisexuality

Valjean

Valjean

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Nowhere Man said:
Japanese / Australian love dolls Animated , affectionate, always have the time without the hangups.
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Soon as tech advances even further, we won't even need women anymore.
Freedom!!!!!
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"Sex is different today. You see, we don't have any problems; everybody's frigid."
 
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wjf

wjf

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@Landon Caeli Yes I agree. I've known many men, even religious men, who've lived their whole lives as virgins or celibates. I myself am a 27 year old virgin. The same can not be said for men who don't eat food. Hunger is a natural need but sex is not, at least for some men anyhow. I pity the man who needs sex.

"Men do not despise a thief, if he steal to satisfy his soul when he is hungry; But if he be found, he shall restore sevenfold; he shall give all the substance of his house. But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away. For jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance. He will not regard any ransom; neither will he rest content, though thou givest many gifts." - King James Bible, Proverbs 6
 
Cooky

Cooky

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wjf said:
@Landon Caeli Yes I agree. I've known many men, even religious men, who've lived their whole lives as virgins or celibates. The same can not be said for men who don't eat food. Hunger is a natural need but sex is not, at least for some men anyhow. I pity the man who needs sex.

"Men do not despise a thief, if he steal to satisfy his soul when he is hungry; But if he be found, he shall restore sevenfold; he shall give all the substance of his house. But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away. For jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance. He will not regard any ransom; neither will he rest content, though thou givest many gifts." - King James Bible, Proverbs 6
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For the progressive secularist, sex is the medicine they try to feed the religious. All the while, not knowing that temperament of our instincts is what makes us more conscious beings.

Losing ourselves to our carnal instincts, makes us more like animalistic, non-conscious beings, which is actually degressive.
 
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columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
wjf said:
I pity the man who needs sex.
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I pity the man who is unable to recognize the value of living a healthy life.

Responsible sexual relations are a great boon to a satisfying life.

As a cradle Catholic, I've seen the damage done by vows of chastity.
Tom
 
Cooky

Cooky

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columbus said:
Oh yes.

Google "Roman Catholic pedophilia scandal", in case you've been living under a rock for the last 30 years.
Tom
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I thought every Church and organization was proportionately equal in that regard -so it's not abstinence at all that causes people to make their sexual fantasies a reality... It's a failure to overcome our instincts.
 
oldbadger

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
wjf said:
"And think not to say within yourselves, We have Abraham to our father: for I say unto you, that God is able of these stones to raise up children unto Abraham." - Matthew 3:9, King James Bible

Sexuality is digusting where I live, because of its unsolicited and highly promoted nature. I was on the train today, and saw two advertisements pertaining to marriage and dating. There are some people who'd be killed by hate gangs for dating. Some people can't even legally marry, where I live.

I like air. Air is all around us, naturally. Air is beneficial. Nobody needs to coerce the distribution of air.

Sex is all around me, but I'm not sure if it's natural. Even if it's natural, that does not mean that it is acceptable or morally correct. Some people can't have sex without breaking religious laws. Sex spreads disease. Nobody would easily voluntarily engage in an activity that spreads disease. Naturally, some people probably would not want sex nor have sex: I am a virgin.

So sex is still all around me, but through somewhat artificial means. Someone had put the romantic sexual advertisements of dating and marriage on the train. Those advertisements didn't spawn naturally. My city gives marriage benefits. There are sexual restrictions to marriage. That connection between marriage and sex proves that marriage is sexual where I live, even because a husband (who can't have sex with other women) would then be very pressured to have sex with his wife due to the local romantic sexual promotion. I've even heard of the term, "maritial rape."

The only good thing of sex is a child. But even a mother can die during labor or childbirth. A baby can die or be unhealthy upon delivery. Or a child can grow to kill his parents, even though christianity tries to prevent this. So there is only a very small likely benefit to sex, a human experiement, in comparison to its many dangers.

Sex is naturally dangerous and bad. And yet for the sake of sowing and reaping children, some societies promote sexuality. They allow romantic sexual advertisements on trains. They give benefits to romantic sexual couples who can produce kids. They teach unsatisfactory sexual education too late, especially knowing that rape and sex crimes are a huge issue for women in a neighborhood. Some societies want people to have sex so that their chldren can be used for armies, labor forces, and materials; and don't care if women die during childbirth or a wild rapist is loss. Even some businesses profit from sex too, through prostitution or romantic sexual advertisements; because some men are victims to lust and have weak self-control.

And that is why I feel that sexuality is disgusting. Luckily I'm strengthening my self control so that I won't be abused by neither societies nor businesses. I can adopt a child to help secure my future: I don't need to have sex.

Christians know that only the Almighty has the true power to grant life. Some societies count populations and encourage sex, to grow and maintain populations. But the Almighty can create human life from stones. And societies, who depend on sex and men, will soon be counting the ever-plagues of the Almighty.
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OK.
If you don't like sex and sexuality, just don't involve yourself with it.

Leave it alone.

But don't try and pressure others to follow your way, imo.
 
wjf

wjf

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I pity the man who thinks of raping lesbians or flirting with lesbians who are scared of being killed for rejecting. I pity the man who pays to touch a prostitute who's really an undercover cop or a prostitute who he later stuffs into a locked briefcase in the woods. I pity the man who kills a lady that could not survive labor and childbirth or an undiscovered sexually transmitted disease. I pity a man who puts his lust before women and endangers women solely for his own satisfaction or benefit. I pity the man who kidnapped and trafficked a girl for money.

Please forgive these men, for they know not what they do.

When a man needs sex, he then needs a woman. He is then socially or societally dependent.

Is a gay man healthy if he lives in a city of only straight men and strives for sex in that city? Is a man healthy if he tries to have sex in a city of lesbians?

Is a man healthy if he is chained to a post or free? If he is borned chained to a post, then so be it. But if he was born free, would it be healthy for him to then chain himself to a post? And some societies have structures and rules such that sex is binding, a man can't just go back and forth from the post.

Some men can be healthy and not have sex. Some men might need sex, but I am not one of them. And I know many healthy men, including celibates and virgins, who've lived a long life; even honoring their religion.
 
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columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
And while Francis is trying to protect the church and it's most vulnerable members,
Ex-pope Benedict tries to keep the church in the olden days.

VATICAN CITY — Retired Pope Benedict XVI has coauthored a new book defending the Catholic Church's practice of a celibate priesthood, in a shocking move that comes as Pope Francis is considering the possibility of allowing older, married men to be ordained as priests in the Amazon region.

In surprise, Benedict openly defends clerical celibacy as Francis considers married priests

Benedict was a huge enabler of pedophilia amongst the priesthood. He needs to shut up and sit down.

Tom
 
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columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
Landon Caeli said:
I thought every Church and organization was proportionately equal in that regard -so it's not abstinence at all that causes people to make their sexual fantasies a reality... It's a failure to overcome our instincts.
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You'd be wrong.

The vow of chastity coupled with the RCC protecting themselves resulted in a far bigger problem than most churches and organizations had.
Tom
 
Cooky

Cooky

Veteran Member
columbus said:
You'd be wrong.

The vow of chastity coupled with the RCC protecting themselves resulted in a far bigger problem than most churches and organizations had.
Tom
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Statistics show the former (vow of chastity) to be untrue. On the latter (protecting), I digress.
 
wjf

wjf

Member
oldbadger said:
OK.
If you don't like sex and sexuality, just don't involve yourself with it.

Leave it alone.
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If only sex and sexuality would leave me alone, my friend. But when I am presented with unsolicited romantic sexual content or advertisements, I am uncomfortable.

You can tell a lady to avoid sex and sexuality, but when men are touching her and giving her nude photos, then sex and sexuality is harassing her regardless of her abstinence. Women have been killed for refusing the sex advances of men. Sex and some societies abuse of sex are truly . . . something I wish I could forever avoid. I barely can talk with anyone online without them being romantic sexual or promoting sex. I can't easily walk anywhere in my city without being forced to listen to romantic sexual music from some radio. When avoiding romantic sexual content becomes this difficult, it is very scary and says a lot about the condition of my city.
 
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Cooky

Cooky

Veteran Member
columbus said:
And while Francis is trying to protect the church and it's most vulnerable members,
Ex-pope Benedict tries to keep the church in the olden days.

VATICAN CITY — Retired Pope Benedict XVI has coauthored a new book defending the Catholic Church's practice of a celibate priesthood, in a shocking move that comes as Pope Francis is considering the possibility of allowing older, married men to be ordained as priests in the Amazon region.

In surprise, Benedict openly defends clerical celibacy as Francis considers married priests

Benedict was a huge enabler of pedophilia amongst the priesthood. He needs to shut up and sit down.

Tom
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NCR is the Catholic source for those in dissent.
 
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columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
Landon Caeli said:
Statistics show the former (vow of chastity) to be untrue.
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What statistics?

They'd certainly contradict my experience. But then, I'm a cradle Catholic. I know more about the RCC than whatever group of men who've taken a vow of chastity at a young age that you and your statistics are referring to.
Tom
 
Mock Turtle

Mock Turtle

Oh my, did I say that!
Premium Member
Landon Caeli said:
LOL, I remember my dad watching that when I was a little kid, and then kicking me out of the front room. :D
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I've probably seen most of his best films and they will still be so funny - especially now that I haven't seen one in many years and can't remember them that well. :oops:
 
Bird123

Bird123

Well-Known Member
wjf said:
@Bird123 When my True Love arrives, I will give her the gift of friendship and equality. I won't pressure her to have sex, nor deprive her of her rights simply because of her gender or lack of sexuality. I can have a very powerful relationship with a woman, without having to invade her privacy or chance her death during childbirth. Many women value a friend more than a boyfriend, including lesbians.

Because sadly, women get raped and some societies need children. If a lady refuses sex, she can't easily just live on the streets like the average homeless, because some societies NEED her to produce children. She will likely be raped, and so she searches for some security, even the security from social relationships, to protect her from such targeted rape. She sometimes even endures marital rape, as at least she's not getting raped by a complete stranger who'd give her unknown sexually transmitted diseases. But I can try to protect a woman from rape without having sex with her: I can be a good friend and treat her like a fellow brother.

And yes, relationships have an influence on sexuality, where I live. A man who's married can not legally have sex with other women, where I live. The same custom is common in boyfriend-girlfriend relationships. Why does sex have an impact on love? I would not care if my girlfriend had multiple boyfriends and sex partners. However, some societies DO care. Some societies (either to preserve a certain race or culture, or to somewhat prevent disease,) restrict the sexuality of married persons and intimate partners. But in doing so, they then add pressure on a husband to have sex with his wife, since he can't have sex with anyone else. Then add the unsolicited sexuality and unsolicited romantic sexual content advertised within some societies, (especially from businesses of sexual exploitation,) and . . . I am not surprised that marital rape exists. I am not against the religious sexual restrictions on married coupes, hence why I just avoid marriage altogether and remain a virgin. Some men have certain levels of self-control where they can live lives as virgins.

@Saint Frankenstein I would rather save my money and not see a therapist. I have a right to hate sex like any rape victim or LGBTQI+ member. If I hated tennis, nobody would say that I need to go to a therapist. I have the right to hate an activity. You might as well tell me to go to a therapist for being LGBTQI+, if I weren't straight. My nature of hating sex is a result of unsolicited sexual content: I would not hate sex so much if it wasn't being thrown in my face every single day. My hate is similar to a lady being sent unsolicited photos of private parts, every single day and regardless of her precautions of avoiding such unsolicited sexuality.
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If rape is being swept under the carpet, perhaps you could be a Champion and bring it out in the open for everyone to see. What is the old saying? The wheel that squeaks the most gets the most grease. People are afraid, however many will rally behind one brave soul.

Do not run from Drama. You will find Drama is where most of the Learning takes place.

Finally, I have found most women do want to have children at some point in their lives. Do not discount this entirely. You will discover what most parents have learned. Children make life Grand. Each are Special in their own way.
 
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