This might be a sensitive topic for many, so apologies in advance.
I have had a few near misses in my life, especially two where I would almost certainly have died had it not been for my own tenacity, skill, and some luck in both cases - it was a matter of seconds on both occasions. These incidents were separated by about three decades, with the first down to childish ignorance of the possible dangers, whilst the second probably occurred from my being lulled into a false sense of security. During my life I have done many quite dangerous activities but I can only think of one occasion where I needed to be rescued (not a serious incident) and another where there might have been the necessity for a rescue. But overall, although a few quite serious accidents occurred, none of those I shared such activities with actually died or sustained any life-changing injuries. This was not the case for one of my friends though, which I will now relate.
I first went caving with the Scouts, on two occasions, where we went to the nearest caving region for a weekend's caving, and going down about a half-dozen or so caves. I was so smitten with caving that I subsequently joined a caving club whilst at college, and spent most weekends doing this, although I still managed to have a reasonable (drinking) social life as I had some good friends at college. Later, I joined another club, and it was whilst at a caving conference with them that I learnt about the death of one from the first club. This was a real shock, to all who knew him too probably, since he was just one of those people least likely to be another accident statistic. He would hardly have called himself the brightest but he was quite down to earth, a very experienced caver, and someone who spent much of his time rescuing others. He was in his mid 20s when this happened.
The incident involves a sump, which, for any who don't know, is a bit like a toilet u-bend and just about as appetising. This group, of which he and I were members, was more involved in the technical aspects of caving, such that exploration and cave rescue were two things high on the list of priorities. Cave exploration often involved trying to push through sumps to gain access to passages beyond. It is an aspect that many cavers will probably not like (I never did) because it does obviously involve the real dangers of drowning - which is what happened to my friend. It seems to be the case that about half of all fatal incidents in caves are related to water, which is understandable, given that sumps and/or flowing water are much evident in caves - many caves are formed by flowing water in the first place.
The particular incident involved a quite tight sump - so tight that it would have been a struggle without any water being involved - so one can appreciate the dangers of being trapped in such a situation and where one's air might run out. This is apparently what happened to my friend. Those with him were apparently not that experienced or just did not realise what had happened after a certain time had elapsed. Signals are supposed to be given by means of a rope but these might have been misinterpreted. He had a smallish air bottle and when they recovered his body apparently all the air had been used up. All of my understanding about the incident has come from reports in caving journals and some conversations with those who were around at the time and knew about the incident.
It seems to me that he was rather reckless by trying to push through this sump without sufficient backup - in the form of other experienced cavers and backup equipment (like additional air bottles) - such that he was seriously risking his life, and for what? Just so that another section of cave could be explored? He might, in addition, have been trying to show off to others, but that is just speculation.
It is coincidental that the first occasion I was to join this first group, was to retrieve a young boy’s body from a sump, and it was in the very same cave where he died. He was with a party of boys on adventure training, but he had foolishly dived into a sump and drowned. I missed this first meeting though for some reason. I never participated in any cave rescues since I usually returned home before any call-outs were made and I was not on the telephone at the time. A young trainee soldier had survived a similar experience in this cave a few years earlier before being rescued, by firstly, finding an air-bell, secondly, by his remarkable patience and endurance (he was there for 12 hours), and lastly by a great deal of luck. For this incident, he then inadvertently held the record for the longest free-dive (90ft) in a cave. Another coincidence is that the only photograph I have of my friend is of him lying in some water in a cave, but not a sump, and I have few cave photographs at all since I didn’t persevere doing so - often taking too much time or requiring to have to drag additional equipment when there was enough already.
So, one of the few sad memories that have come from the many activities I have undertaken. Have any of you similar tales that tend to point out the foolishness of youth?
Hope next time it's not you! (From Horrible Histories)