Mister_T, I have looked at the site you provided and all it says is that the word has many meanings. It talks mostly about how sexually bad things were back then, and tries to make it look like the word got that meaning over time and didn't have it already. I agree that there were sick sexual things going on back then, but all you give are opinions of people who think that this could have happened. There is no proof that it did. I have not seen one speck of it.
You are correct that the word Porneia has many meanings (I listed them); however, when there is nothing guiding the meaning toward any one thing then it encompasses all of what it means in the context of what the person is saying. Thus, if the word Porneia meant all that it does today back then, and I see no reason why it shouldn't (even with the long arguments you have given) then we have to accept it as what it is, because there seems to be nothing but speculation as to what it isn't, and no factual basis for such speculation. If I have missed some proof please bring it to my attention.
Although the Old Testament seems to say nothing on this subject, as it also seems to say nothing on slavery directly. Life, however, does make slavery seem like a bad thing. The practice of slavery was so common and ingrained into people that God just made it seem like a bad idea and let it gradually fade out. It was even allowed in the New Testament, however it showed it as more of a bad idea and gradually let it fade out. Would anyone here be able to say that the Bible makes slavery look like a good idea? Would anyone here say that slavery is a good idea? Slavery is wrong, but it had to be fazed out instead of abolished. The more horrible things had to be gotten rid of first. The New Testament makes it clear that sex outside of marriage is wrong, by using the word it did. The Old Testament is not so clear on the subject. The New Testament didnt even make polygamy illegal. It did, however, make it look like a bad idea.
As it is written, Anyone, then, who knows the good he ought to do and doesn't do it, sins. James 4:17. The laws in the Old Testament were made for man, not for God. They were made so man would know what is good, what is true, and what is good for the body too. It made illegal things that were extremely unhealthy in the conditions they lived in (such as pork and shellfish). These things have a deeper meaning (midrash), but they also mean what they say at face value (what separates midrash from Gnosticism). They kept the Jews in better health than any other people of their time; and yet not scare them with the idea of tiny things that they cant see constantly on them at all times eating away at them and in what they eat (germs). The rules were for them to do well in their existence, not for God. Its not just something to make God feel better (although He does feel better when we listen to Him). We have guidelines for living for our own good, just as they did. Although, there are things that are explicitly sins, according to God, in all situations containing them. If we dont do what is right then we sin. If we do it as a habit then we are rejecting God, once again. We are not taking His advice. His advise is what is good. If you want to have sex outside of marriage then go ahead. I dont recommend it at all, and neither does God, from what I have seen. If you dont accept the recommendation of God and you do what is wrong, then you sin. Sin has consequences. Sin doesnt need God to punish people. Sin can do that itself.
Laws are there for a reason. They are there as protection a lot of the time. Why is homosexual sex not good? Well, its not what we were made for. Its unnatural. Outside of that it tends to be very unhealthy for the body, and for the mind too. Because it is unnatural and that makes it such a bad sin we know that it is bad for the spirit too. Unhealthy for body, soul, and spirit. What a bad thing. Its the same with masturbation. God says nothing on this; however, we know it to be not good for a persons mind or body. Is it permissible in situations? I think it could be in some, though I wont give examples. Does that make it good in all situations? No. However, if its an addiction then the person is mastered by it and Paul warned against that. That is wrong. I use to be mastered by soda
then only Pepsi and Sunkist tasted good
then only Sunkist tasted good
and then none of it tasted good, but I drank Sunkist anyway. I was mastered by soda. That made it a sin. That makes masturbation a sin. That makes smoking a sin (as well as other factors.) That can make anything a sin.
I think I did it again. I said too much, and on too many subjects, all at once. I tend to do that, especially when it comes to trying to tell what is sin and what is not. I hope I explained what I was trying to. If somethings unclear please point it out.
I would also like to add something to what I have previously said. I said that in a marriage a person's body belongs equally to himself as to his wife, and a wife's to her husband. I was wrong on this. It is complete summation on this subject. Your body is hers and not your own, and hers is yours and not her own. This makes much more sense; a complete giving of your body over to your partner. This would prevent the bad that tends to erupt from the "not now Honey, I'm too tired" excuse, when the husband needs her; or the "I'm too busy right now darling, can you get me an sandwich?" problem that gets the woman too worked up and sends her over to the husbands best friend; as well as the problem with your partner not wanting to do something for you because it seems "icky", or "smelly", or "doesn't taste good" (happens with guys and girls). A proper relationship would keep the partner from behaving wrongly toward their spouse. That would keep the power struggle from getting unequal, and keep them together, at home, instead of away with other people from lack of sexual satisfaction. Doesnt it make much more sense? Ain't God great? Praise the LORD! Genius! Gods understandings of things are great, even if we don't see anywhere near all of it!