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Do You Consider Yourself Conservative? If So in What Way?

What kind of conservative are you?


  • Total voters
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stacey bo bacey

oh no you di'int
If you cant "fathom" it how do you know what you would do?

You are talking about some other woman..and some other it...it never happened to you..

How can you know?

Im not "coming after you"...But it amazes me when someone who has never been raped ..knows exactly what they would do in the case that resulted in pregnancy..

Im not saying all women have abortions..obviously some dont..

But that somehow you would "know" what you would do in the aftermath of rape when you have never experienced it perplexes me..

You know some people try and say what they would do if someone broke in there house...That they have a gun and would shoot them...NO DOUBT...

Some people say "if a man ever hit me I'de leave him right then"...

Some people say if "I was starving I would never committ a crime to feed my children"

I dont listen to those people...

Love

Dallas


That's fine, I understand what you're saying and where you're coming from. But with how I personally feel about abortion, I know I could never go through with murdering a living being (because that's what abortion is to me). Rape is incredibly traumatic I'm sure, but I'm stronger than that. So yes, I do know what I would do. I'd grow a pair, have it and either put it up for adoption or keep it.
 

methylatedghosts

Can't brain. Has dumb.
I think that's the point of the poll. You vote to say what exactly it is you're conserving: religion, society, money, the center left — you name it!
Err... I honestly couldn't tell you...

I'm not used to using the label "conservative"...

I don't even know if I WOULD be labelled as such...
 

Worshipper

Active Member
Err... I honestly couldn't tell you...

I'm not used to using the label "conservative"...

I don't even know if I WOULD be labelled as such...
I think I understand. When you think conservative, you might think generally of the National Party and folks like them. Or, you might think of people strongly opposed to the Labour Party. That's the kind of thing I think we're talking about when we say conservative. That's certainly the kind of thing that political conservative means, anyway.

There are other ways in which you might be conservative. If you are High-Church Anglican, that would be religiously conservative. Or if you are a strict reconstructionist pagan of some type, that could also be a religious conservative.

If you're a monarchist, that would probably make you a constitutional conservative.

If you believe governments shouldn't spend more money than they take in and that they should generally take in relatively little money, that would make you a fiscal conservative.

If you think the social values you learned growing up (or perhaps that your parents or even grandparents learned) are facing degradation and you think they should be bolstered, then you'd be a social conservative.

If you're a bit of a reactionary and want to go back to a previous age when things were better (religiously, socially, politically, whatever), then you might be a right-wing nut job. Like if you think New Zealand should be ruled from London, or you think Maoris and Whites should be kept strictly apart from one another, or you advocate a return to a pre-industrial age, or you wish Hitler had successfully created a thousand-year Reich. Note that some right-wing nut job causes look a lot like some left-wing nut job causes on the outside (like returning to a pre-industrial age). The difference is the motivation.

There's certainly no requirement that you be a conservative. But remember that this is the Conservatives Only forum.
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
Rape is incredibly traumatic I'm sure, but I'm stronger than that. So yes, I do know what I would do. I'd grow a pair,

Im glad that you know you are stronger than something that you are "sure" is incredibly traumatic .

And its great that you would "grow a pair" versus some of the rape victims that have no balls...

Your right...those who have been raped need to just snap out of it..

And I didnt "type cast" you by the way..You type casted yourself..

Love

Dallas
 

Worshipper

Active Member
Say Dallas,

Stacey's already said this is her private opinion and she doesn't want to be pestered about it. It's not like she's trying to force her opinion on anyone else. She's not trying to persuade anyone. The only reason she told us all exactly how she feels is because she was pushed on it — she said she never likes to talk about it anyway. She's said she's pro-choice, so she's not even trying to inflict her views on others through political means. And I don't get the sense that she's even judging anyone. She's just talking about her own personal beliefs about how she intends to live her own personal life.

Why is it so important for you to get her to conform to your views on the issue? She said she doesn't want to talk about it. Why don't you just leave her alone about it? It's not like her views are harming anyone, are they?

Plus, none of this has anything to do with whether we consider ourselves conservative and if so how. :)
 

Caladan

Agnostic Pantheist
I am conservative in that I drink my whiskey without the rocks.

other than that, although im a non conservative by way of life, im probably conservative in ways beyond my self awareness, you know.. like having to eat my sea food accompanied with white wine, and my steak with a good red one.
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
Say Dallas,

Stacey's already said this is her private opinion and she doesn't want to be pestered about it. It's not like she's trying to force her opinion on anyone else. She's not trying to persuade anyone. The only reason she told us all exactly how she feels is because she was pushed on it — she said she never likes to talk about it anyway. She's said she's pro-choice, so she's not even trying to inflict her views on others through political means. And I don't get the sense that she's even judging anyone. She's just talking about her own personal beliefs about how she intends to live her own personal life.

Why is it so important for you to get her to conform to your views on the issue? She said she doesn't want to talk about it. Why don't you just leave her alone about it? It's not like her views are harming anyone, are they?

Plus, none of this has anything to do with whether we consider ourselves conservative and if so how. :)

I dont think she is trying to persuade anyone..And she wasnt "pushed"..to refer to "growing a pair" if she expereinced rape AND an unwanted pregnancy simotaneously.....

To me its a heartless inference that women any women no matter what the other factors are as well Im assuming(age..country..health status..who she was raped and impreganated by)..who are raped and have a subsequent abortion are weak and have no balls...

Thats all Im going to say about that...

Love

Dallas
 
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DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
Why is it so important for you to get her to conform to your views on the issue? She said she doesn't want to talk about it. Why don't you just leave her alone about it? It's not like her views are harming anyone, are they?

Oh and no I was not trying to "get her" to conform to my views..And yes..she possibly could have harmed someone one with her callous use of words regarding women who have abortions after being raped...Even though she was referring to herself..The inference was obvious..IMHO

Love

Dallas
 

stacey bo bacey

oh no you di'int
I dont think she is trying to persuade anyone..And she wasnt "pushed"..to refer to "growing a pair" if she expereinced rape AND an unwanted pregnancy simotaneously.....

To me its a heartless inference that women any women no matter what the other factors are as well Im assuming(age..country..health status..who she was raped and impreganated by)..who are raped and have a subsequent abortion are weak and have no balls...

Thats all Im going to say about that...

Love

Dallas

Dallas you're the one who took this and ran with it. I did not type cast myself by saying I would never have an abortion, because (perhaps unlike you) I have an excellent sense of empathy and can very much imagine myself in that situation. I'm also firm in my belief on this particular issue.

About "growing a pair "--again, rape is traumatic but it's not the end of the world. Don't try to say I'm trivializing it because I'm not. I'm saying that literally: it is not the end of your world.

By the way, thank you Worshipper. The point you made is exactly how I feel. :rainbow1:

I'm going to walk away now because these are my private beliefs and like I have said others are free to do what they want.
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
About "growing a pair "--again, rape is traumatic but it's not the end of the world. Don't try to say I'm trivializing it because I'm not.

I never said you were "trivializing it"...

And yes rape is the end of your world as you know it if you have been raped. You can never "grow a pair" and be "unraped".NOTHING is EVER the same..At least for those that are raped...NOTHING is ever the same...

But YOU can "not phathom it" and say it isnt the "end of THE world"...

Just say..."its not the end of YOUR world as you know it if SOMEONE else is raped..."

Which is absolutely true...YOU arent AFFECTED if someone besides YOU is raped...

And without that knowledge experience . or "affect" that YOU dont endure...You DO NOT KNOW how you would act..not react ...etc....

Its like me saying... ITS horrible to have been put in a concentration camp!!!..And watched all your family die..I CANT IMAGINE...BUT...IF that happened to me I KNOW how I would REACT...

Its silly...Your use of "phrases" will do you in with rape victims.."grow a pair" "YOU(your self) are stronger than that"..."its not "THE end of THE world"...

And then say..."Iv'e never been raped..I cant phathom that"...

But I believe you...YOU Stacy are stronger than rape victims..Because you "know" you are...Without the test..

Im STRONGER than YOU are...Because I HAVE been raped and I am ALIVE despite that fact..And people like YOU who want to run their mouth talking about how "strong they are"...and how they have "balls"...

Nevermind..I wouldnt wish upon you to have to "prove " your" bold statements...As much as I detest them...

Love

Dallas
 
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