What do you find is difficult for me. I am having no difficulty at all. However, it seems you are having difficulty with some scientists.
Lemaître.
"If the world has begun with a single quantum, the notions of space and time would altogether fail to have any meaning at the beginning; they would only begin to have a sensible meaning when the original quantum had been divided into a sufficient number of quanta. If this suggestion is correct,
the beginning of the world happened a little before the beginning of space and time."
Once again, I acknowledge that the Big Bang model is incredibly good back to the point of the inflationary epoch. In that model, the beginning of space and time was *simultaneous* with the beginning of matter and energy (not a little before).
But can you acknowledge it is incomplete because it doesn't address quantum mechanics? And that it is *necessary* for a complete theory to do so?
And can you acknowledge, as scientists do, that different models of quantum gravity give different answers for the question of whether there is a beginning?
You are relying on popular accounts. And, because of that, you get some of the specifics wrong. That happens in most popular accounts: things are simplified and the full story, which is much more nuanced, is not discussed (mostly because most people don't have the math background to do it seriously).
We are looking at various *models* of the early universe. The main model we use is the LCDM model based on general relativity and having cold dark matter and also dark energy.
That model doesn't work earlier than the era of inflation.
Most of cosmology deals with the time after the BB because that is the time when all of the data we have currently is from. We can't even effectively probe the time of inflation as yet.
In other words, all bets are off prior to inflation.