I know roughly how spacetime is seen in GR. My question was if we can see it from an angle that gives
@Terrywoodenpic 's statement some sense.
Assume the following analogy:
First we get rid of one spacial dimension so that we can imagine the universe in three dimensions like in the bed sheet analogy. Only this time it's a giant balloon. The direction of time is radial from the point of origin. The balloon "inflates" in the direction of time. There are dimples in the balloon where masses are. The distance of a point near a mass to the point of origin is different from points with no (or rather less) mass as well as the velocity those points travel outwards. Points with extreme masses in a small area make steep dimples and the surface doesn't expand at all. (Time stands still at the Schwarzschild radius of a black hole.) Also, fast moving objects make grooves.
There are some problems I see with this analogy: Space would necessarily have a positive curvature and it would decrease over time. Time would probably flow backwards within black holes. Negative mass would probably be impossible.
But in this model gravity would be a function of time as the outward movement (in the direction of time) would determine the gravity.
Now someone with a little more skill and a lot less lazy than me has to do the maths for that model. ;-)