This thread is a joke, no? The Church has long had a pathological hatred of women. It is an organization run by anti-sexual celibate men who are often psychologically stunted in their development (this was actually found to be common among the clergy in research into the causes of the clerical abuse of children).
"Church Doctors and Fathers
· [For women] the very consciousness of their own nature must evoke feelings of shame.–Saint Clement of Alexandria, Christian theologian (c150-215) Pedagogues II, 33, 2
· In pain shall you bring forth children, woman, and you shall turn to your husband and he shall rule over you. And do you not know that you are Eve? God’s sentence hangs still over all your sex and His punishment weighs down upon you. You are the devil’s gateway; you are she who first violated the forbidden tree and broke the law of God. It was you who coaxed your way around him whom the devil had not the force to attack. With what ease you shattered that image of God: Man! Because of the death you merited, even the Son of God had to die... Woman, you are the gate to hell. –Tertullian, “the father of Latin Christianity” (c160-225)
· Woman is a temple built over a sewer.–Tertullian, “the father of Latin Christianity” (c160-225)
· Woman was merely man's helpmate, a function which pertains to her alone. She is not the image of God but as far as man is concerned, he is by himself the image of God. –Saint Augustine, Bishop of Hippo Regius (354-430)
· Woman does not possess the image of God in herself but only when taken together with the male who is her head, so that the whole substance is one image. But when she is assigned the role as helpmate, a function that pertains to her alone, then she is not the image of God. But as far as the man is concerned, he is by himself alone the image of God just as fully and completely as when he and the woman are joined together into one. –Saint Augustine, Bishop of Hippo Regius (354-430)
· Woman is a misbegotten man and has a faulty and defective nature in comparison to his. Therefore she is unsure in herself. What she cannot get, she seeks to obtain through lying and diabolical deceptions. And so, to put it briefly, one must be on one's guard with every woman, as if she were a poisonous snake and the horned devil. ... Thus in evil and perverse doings woman is cleverer, that is, slyer, than man. Her feelings drive woman toward every evil, just as reason impels man toward all good. –Saint Albertus Magnus, Dominican theologian, 13th century
· As regards the individual nature, woman is defective and misbegotten, for the active force in the male seed tends to the production of a perfect likeness in the masculine sex; while the production of woman comes from a defect in the active force or from some material indisposition, or even from some external influence. –Thomas Aquinas, Doctor of the Church, 13th century"
http://www.alternet.org/belief/20-v...-religious-leaders-st-augustine-pat-robertson
Lots more here:
http://www.badnewsaboutchristianity.com/gaf_women.htm
As for how the Church lauds some women, let's look at the traits of some of them. The Virgin Mary is submissive, chaste and asexual. She is the highest standard for all women but she's also completely unrealistic. Furthermore, Mary is also said to have been exempted from Original Sin by God.
Then you have all the nuns and female mystics. Most of them were delusional, many of their visions were highly sexual in nature (especially the severe ascetics like St. Teresa of Avila), most of them practiced severe mortifications (St. Therese of Lisieux, among many others, enjoyed whipping herself bloody in penance; sadomasochism in thought and in action is very deeply embedded into Catholicism) and many of them actually went insane from all the repression, among other things - "convent hysteria". To be fair, the men of the Church weren't/aren't any more mentally stable and did/do the same things.
Oh, and those "incorruptible saints"? It's called wax. They make wax hands, wax feet and wax masks to cover up their rotten corpses. I don't know of one example of a so-called "incorruptible saint" that isn't either covered in wax or some sort of rotted mummy. Some of them, they don't even bother covering up and we're all just supposed to smile and pretend that they smell of roses and look fresh. (You have to wonder why we're expected to swoon over corpses and venerate images of violence, death and suffering in the first place.)
I know you're struggling with your faith - so am I. But the truth is that Catholicism is one of the most pathological and superstitious religions around. It has its beauty, but it's very depressing, dark and has a tendency to lead to or encourage self-hatred. I'm thinking of dropping it and trying to deprogram myself from Christianity because it's not a healthy religion, in my experience and from what I've learned about it.