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WARNING : ANTI-LDS PRETENDING TO BE LDS - Is there ANYTHING to be done about deceivers?

Clear

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I was reading in the thread regarding early LDS beliefs that the LDS no longer believe. I read some comments by posters and wondered :

HOW CAN A READER TELL WHAT IS AUTHENTIC LDS DOCTRINE AND LEGITIMATE INFORMATION VERSUS MIS-INFORMATION THAT IS POSING AS GOOD DATA? This principle determines to a great extent, the value of any internet site as a source of legitimate information. What if we allow any sort of informational "junk" to be posted in the place of what is real. As a "hypothetical" example, how could one tell if some posts are legit or not?

How does a poorly informed person tell which posts are legitimate or not among those that are not merely controversial, but contain mis-information and obvious deceptions?
Especially since what might be true and what might be false may have a similar appearance. Also, since we are often talking "beliefs", almost ALL of us will offer some "misinformation" from time to time (which someone else who perhaps knows better - or not, will disagree) . It becomes complicated.

This is NOT just an LDS problem, but I've noticed anti-catholics posing as catholics, non-muslims posing as muslims, most of the time with the intent to discredit and mis-inform and to attempt to hurt the religion they are posing as members of but want to do harm to.

Regarding the occurence of religious deception; it is starting to crop up more often. The anti-religionist, poses as a religionist, and then teaches the outlandish and the foolish; all in the attempt to damage and do harm to the religion they are against. For example, though there are rules against “non-mormons” posting trash against the mormons, the distinction to be mormon lies in a simple label, next to Under out internet name. Thus, individuals very obviously avoid rules of spreading mis-information by deception.

One can simply CLAIM, under the "religion" tag to be "mormon" or "catholic" or "muslim", or "new" mormon or "New" Catholic or "new" Muslim, or add the words "really really authentic" before the religion, or “wide-eyed mormon”, and then, as an anti-mormon, with relative and temporal impunity, spew whatever anti-mormon; anti catholic or anti islamic doctrine they want. It is a very satanic type of deception that is easily recognized by members of the specific religion themselves, and authentic investigators who read the posts can see "something doesn't sit right" and thus can discern something is wrong, but such tactics undermine the value of a forum as a source of legitimate information on any subject.

In the same way we have "posers" in the LDS forum who are obviously NOT LDS despite a deceptive claim. When I was on the Islamic forums (very cordial interactions there by the way), I saw a muslim, masquerading as a Christian and spewing junk in an attempt to make the Christians look badly. I've also seen individuals pose as Muslims doing the same harm to Islam. I suspect the Athiests may also suffer from misguided religionists posing as a poorly informed athiest in order to do the Athiests beliefs damage. Though the LDS and Catholics and Muslims and Athiest THEMSELVES have a good feel for who is deceiving, (since they possess the underlying data sets and understanding to have a feel for this), others do not.

Is there anything to be done about such deception? Perhaps, to decrease such deceptions, the forum administrators could allow specific religions to form their own group of 5 or 10 individuals to look at such deceptions and have some authority over what individuals put under their "religious preference" label?

Any ideas on how to combat such deceivers?

Is there a way to at least post an "advisory"? (such as "the LDS committee has deemed post number so and so to contain mis-information?)
However, such a method could become so unwieldy since, some of us DO get things wrong from time to time and post things that seem honestly legitimate, but are, in reality, dis-information. It becomes complicated.

On the historical forums, or the science forums or the archeology forums, it is very, very easy to spot deceivers since one is dealing about data which tends to be more factual in nature and thus difficult to fake. However, in a religious forum, we are dealing about beliefs and deceivers don't deal with facts per se. In fact, they cannot ply their trade in a factual world, but MUST stay in the safer and darker areas of fantastic claims and rhetoric (since factual information reveals what they are).

It is complicated, not merely to identify the deceivers, but as what to do about them.



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Katzpur

Not your average Mormon
Can I clear something up? I'm not posing as anyone but myself. I've stated quite clearly that I am no longer a practicing member of the LDS Church and that I no longer believe in it. I am not trying to pretend something I am not.
I don't believe he was referring to you.
 

madhatter85

Transhumanist
apparently when i came on there was a person before me called madhatter who was anti-Mormon so i got pinged by mods asking If i were him. man that was awkward. and on that note the word awkward is awkward too!
 

zomg

I aim to misbehave!
Wow, Clear. Wow.

Anything I have said can be backed up by quotes from LDS leaders. If that makes them "lies" then I don't know what to tell you.

I am a Mormon. I was a Mormon before you. I will always be a Mormon. You do not have the power to deny me that fact. If something I've said has bothered you then PM me. No need to make a whole thread.
 

dallas1125

Covert Operative
Wow, Clear. Wow.

Anything I have said can be backed up by quotes from LDS leaders. If that makes them "lies" then I don't know what to tell you.

I am a Mormon. I was a Mormon before you. I will always be a Mormon. You do not have the power to deny me that fact. If something I've said has bothered you then PM me. No need to make a whole thread.
Out of curiosity, what is a New Order Mormon?
 

dallas1125

Covert Operative
ehr? I don't get it.
Basically, someone who pretends to be mormon to avoid any complications.

For example, If I decided not to be mormon (living in Idao/Utah) I would basically put myself in exile. My dad would disown me, my mom would probably go back into depression. A lot of my friends would criticize me. It would just be better to be a undercover whatever.
 

Katzpur

Not your average Mormon
Okay, I got ya
I have a quick book recommendation for y'all: "For Those Who Wonder." I bought the book years ago. (Yes, I wondered.) It's a short book and you can download the entire thing to your printer. There is also two websites (both by the author of the book): For Those Who Wonder and Borderlands. From what I can see, "Borderlands" is pretty similar to the book, "For Those Who Wonder." In it, (i.e. "Borderlands"), look in particular at Column #18: LDS-Compatible Personal Religion.

By the way, dallas, if you're looking into becoming a "New Order Mormon," I would suggest you put the mission on hold. If you're not going because you personally want to go, don't. My son never went. I felt bad about it, but I would have felt even worse if he'd gone to please his dad and me, only to decide a few years later that it was all a sham.
 
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dallas1125

Covert Operative
By the way, dallas, if you're looking into becoming a "New Order Mormon," I would suggest you put the mission on hold. If you're not going because you personally want to go, don't. My son never went. I felt bad about it, but I would have felt even worse if he'd gone to please his dad and me, only to decide a few years later that it was all a sham.
Well, I put a question mark there cause im not sure where I stand.

Either way, not going on my mission is not an option. My dad never went and im the oldest child. He keeps telling me how excited he is. He actually is in the hospital right now on what could be his death bed and he told me how proud he was that im going on my mission. He told me why he never went and then said how much he regretted it and was excited for me to go. My mom would definetley not be able to handle it. She has major depression problems and if she found out that I no longer believe, I am afraid she might get worse. There are other reasons, but these are the major ones.

Honestly, I just dont know where I stand.
 

Katzpur

Not your average Mormon
Basically, someone who pretends to be mormon to avoid any complications.
So call it what it is: A Great Pretender. At least have the courage to not be a hypocrite.

For example, If I decided not to be mormon (living in Idao/Utah) I would basically put myself in exile. My dad would disown me, my mom would probably go back into depression. A lot of my friends would criticize me. It would just be better to be a undercover whatever.
I am seriously blown away by this statement. You would go on a mission, encourage people to change their lives, sit and lie to them and tell them you believe something you don't? :facepalm: Did you parents not teach you to have any integrity at all?

Listen, I've suffered from depression -- serious depression -- for years. I have taken anti-depressants for it for years. Both of my kids (a son, 31, and a daughter, 28) have left the Church. I'm not even going to tell you all of the shi**y decisions they've made in the years since they left home. Do you think this has been easy on me? At least I can say one thing for them, though: They are not hypocrites. When they tell you what they believe, you can at least they're not lying to you. In spite of our differences, we are close and can respect that we don't see things the same way. If you were to leave the Church (or at least not fill a mission) your mom would survive. And if your dad is the kind of person who would disown you over this, my advice to you would be to disown him first.
 
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dallas1125

Covert Operative
So call it what it is: A Great Pretender. At least have the courage to not be a hypocrite.

I am seriously blown away by this statement. You would go on a mission, encourage people to change their lives, sit and lie to them and tell them you believe something you don't? :facepalm: Did you parents not teach you to have any integrity at all?

Listen, I've suffered from depression -- serious depression -- for years. I have taken anti-depressants for it for years. Both of my kids (a son, 31, and a daughter, 28) have left the Church. I'm not even going to tell you all of the shi**y decisions they've made in the years since they left home. Do you think this has been easy on me? At least I can say one thing for them, though: They are not hypocrites. When they tell you what they believe, you can at least they're not lying to you. In spite of our differences, we are close and can respect that we don't see things the same way. If you were to leave the Church (or at least not fill a mission) your mom would survive. And if your dad is the kind of person who would disown you over this, my advice to you would be to disown him first.
Hey this might be so easy for you to say. Its not such an easy decision for me. There is more to it than just immediate family, you also have to consider the fact that I would become isolated from all the friends I have. Your making this choice out to be easy, maybe for you. Its not for me. I want to believe, but I cant.
 
Some people have a different opinion about the Church - they may love the Church, but some certain doctrines do not hold for them. This, to me, also is what a New Order Mormon is, besides being a TBM (True Believer Mormon). Why does everything have to be completely black and white?

Some people may believe that the Book of Mormon is true - not in the sense as a historical narrative, but rather as an inspired testimony of Jesus Christ using narrative to illustrate those principles. I do not see this as a radically faith-breaking testimony as much as a faith-building one, because it gives more power and focus that the Book of Mormon is completely about Jesus as the living Christ.

Even the Catholic Church, in all its pomp and grandeur, has its differing schools of thought. Why can not Mormons in Mormonism also have differing strains of thought? There must be an opposition in all things, and I really like that inquisitive spirit.

One may believe that the Church is true - just not in the conventional way of thinking. :D


"For it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things. If not so, my first-born in the wilderness, righteousness could not be brought to pass, neither wickedness, neither holiness nor misery, neither good nor bad."

-- 2 Nephi 2:11
 
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Katzpur

Not your average Mormon
Hey this might be so easy for you to say. Its not such an easy decision for me. There is more to it than just immediate family, you also have to consider the fact that I would become isolated from all the friends I have. Your making this choice out to be easy, maybe for you. Its not for me. I want to believe, but I cant.
I know. I'm not saying it would be easy and I definitely do not believe a person can simply will himself to believe something he doesn't. I actually do sympathize with the position your family has put you in (a lot more than may appear to be the case). But you do need to reconcile how you're going to be able to sleep at night when when you have just returned from sitting down with a family of investigators, having told them that you "know" the Church is true, that you "know" that Joseph Smith was a true prophet, that you "know" the Book of Mormon is true -- and then ask them to be willing to isolate themselves from their family and friends.
 

dallas1125

Covert Operative
I know. I'm not saying it would be easy and I definitely do not believe a person can simply will himself to believe something he doesn't. I actually do sympathize with the position your family has put you in (a lot more than may appear to be the case). But you do need to reconcile how you're going to be able to sleep at night when when you have just returned from sitting down with a family of investigators, having told them that you "know" the Church is true, that you "know" that Joseph Smith was a true prophet, that you "know" the Book of Mormon is true -- and then ask them to be willing to isolate themselves from their family and friends.
I know...I really am trying to convince myself to believe, I just dont know what I believe. I dont think I would classify myself just yet as a NOM, but I definetley am not a solid believer.
 

Katzpur

Not your average Mormon
Why can not Mormons in Mormonism also have differing strains of thought?
They can. Don't tell me that you haven't figured out yet that I'm a little left of center myself.

There must be an opposition in all things, and I really like that inquisitive spirit.
I do, too. I was taught from my earliest childhood to question. I can remember telling my dad things my Seminary teacher had said that struck me as not being "quite right." He would would just shake his head and roll his eyes and tell me I didn't have to believe everything I ever heard a Sunday School or Seminary teacher teach me. The freedom to question without feeling guilty was one of the best gifts he ever gave me. It's actually what has kept me in the Church. When I hear things that cause me to go, "Say what?!?!" and when I read less than flattering accounts of LDS history, I have consistently reminded myself that there is more than one version to every story. Yeah, there is the Sunday School version. Then there is the version put forth by people who have discovered that the Sunday School version omitted a few not-so-flattering facts. Then there is the truth. It usually falls somewhere in between, because it does include the not-so-flattering facts, but generally also provides other details (such as context, historical background, etc.) that make the not-so-flattering facts more understandable.

For me, there will always be questions. There will always be issues that push my buttons. I'm old enough to remember when Blacks were given the right to hold the priesthood. It was a memorable day for me, because a policy was overturned that I don't believe should ever have been put in place in the first place. Maybe I'm wrong, but if I'm not, and if God never wanted His priesthood to be restricted in this way, I'm not going to be the one who is held accountable for the policy. The fact that men are fallible, both in their decisions and in their behavior, is not reason enough for me to throw out the baby with the bath water.

Do you know what keeps me in the Church? It's the doctrines. It's the fact that I'm not asked to believe that "three are one and one is three, and yet one is not three and three are not one." It's the concept that God is not going to eternally torture someone for having had the misfortune to be born at the wrong time and in the wrong place. It's the belief that everybody who has ever lived is going to get a little more time to think things through after this relatively brief life is over. It's the conviction that when I finally get to Heaven, I'm going to be met by my parents, sister, husband, kids (and, God willing, my pets), and that they are going to be real, flesh and bones individuals I can throw my arms around. Where would I go to find those doctrines if it were not for my Church? I'd have literally nowhere to go without those beliefs.
 
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Clear

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Hi happyhummingbird;

I’m sorry for the any discomfort the post might have caused you and I understand why you might have taken it personally. Since you honestly admit that you are non-mormon, I do NOT believe you come under the description of the type of counterfeiting that plagues multiple forums (though I admit that the title “Not Yet Resigned Mormon” to describe a “non mormon” still confuses me - sorry...).


I admit that I had some ambivalence about the value of pointing out the concept of counterfeits since the counterfeits themselves generally care more not to be found out than they do about the morality of their actions. The consumers of what the counterfeits offer, often feel that “something is amiss” but sometimes bias and other motives over ride common sense. These individuals are the most affected since individuals seeking good data, generally try to listen to those with the greatest credibility.

Katzpur is correct that the post does not refer simply to individuals who represent themselves as “anti-mormons” or “agnostics” or “athiests”, nor am I referring to simply to non-mormon theists who disagree with the LDS regarding how God is to be understood and how salvation is to be gained. I am talking about a Principle that affects almost ALL religions though I posted it in the thread that I care the most about.

Subtle but important differences exist between counterfeit sources of religious information and real sources of religious information..


THE IMPORTANCE OF AND DIFFERENCE IN DATA TYPES
Often the counterfeit will focus on very obscure claims and petty points of conflict whose importance is then blown out of proportion. It is an attempt to nibble away at the obscure edges of history and religion where data is scanty and the data mixes with fantasy.

However, such claims generally are plagued by a LACK of data, rather than any clear case for or against a subject. Their claims usually have apparent discrepancies that could be resolved with more and better data. People who stay in the dark areas of speculation will always be gaining bits of data and “Ever learning” but “never able to come to the knowledge of the truth”. (2 Tim 2:3-7)



WHAT IT IS THAT COUNTERFEITS OFFER
Often the counterfeit is not offering anything but doubt for a current belief instead of a comparison belief that is “better”. This very different than another religionist trying to convert a mormon to a different type of belief.

For example : The Catholic who has honest faith in his principles is very honorable in his specific motive underlying his attempt to change the mind of a mormon.
In this case the Catholic is attempting to HELP the Mormon to abandon one specific belief in favor of what the Catholic sees is a better, or more true belief. He is offering something to benefit the mormon towards a goal of salvation and knowledge of God. To reach this honorable goal, the Catholic may have to say uncomfortable things to the mormon (or vis versa). The underlying motive, however, remains honorable in this interaction.


WHAT MOTIVATES THE COUNTERFEITS
Often counterfeiters seek to destroy a specific belief without having anything to offer in it’s place. They are often motivated by anger or disgruntlement or similar motives. These are not honorable religious motives in my view.

Thus while the honorable Catholic is OFFERING something to the mormon whereas the dishonorable counterfeit rarely offers any different faith in God or source of salvation. They will often claim they want to spread an uncomfortable truth out of some altruistic reason. “I want to open the mormon’s eyes(or the Catholics, or the Muslim’s eyes"). Such statements reflect loneliness in being where they are and a seeking of confirmation that they belong to a group who agrees with them.

The type of anti-religionist I am speaking about has a different underlying goal usually tainted by anger or disgruntlement. Just like the Hattfields and McCoy feud, the reason(s) for disgruntlement may be long-forgotten and what remains is the goal to destroy or harm belief without replacement by any better belief.


THE TYPES OF DATA OFFERED ARE SIMILAR FOR BOTH COUNTERFEITERS AND ANTI-RELIGIONISTS
Data tends to involve, not only petty, “fringe” issues rather than doctrines of salvation but often the data has it’s own internal discrepancies. This is different than the religionist who is trying to convert the mormon and offers another belief they feel is “better”.

A hypothetical and honest Catholic (or other religionist) will try to do his best to make sure the information is correct (though mistakes will be made). For example, Mr. Emu and I disagree on several historical points, but I TRUST that he is attempting to give me good information. Thus, I’d rather read his data and his conclusions than those made from many others. If he finds discrepancies in his data, he does not use it or he retracts it once he sees fault in it.

The disgruntled or disaffected tend not to distinguish their claims based on fact nor any in-depth study, but rather what they see as facts is heavily influenced by other issues such as anger, or past tradition or pride and a host of other things that have little to do with the data itself. The concept refers to the multitude of counterfeit religious claimants.

I am NOT referring the idea that we all make mistakes in some of our claims (since we all fall into that category occasionally), but rather I am referring to the conscious choice to base claims on data which carries unresolved discrepancies.





For example, I received a claim that the mormon temple ceremony once included the oath to murder individuals in revenge. I PM'd the poster and was given links to information upon which such claims were made that mormons took an oath to murder. (Presumably to “avenge a death” does not mean simple name calling).

However, If such an oath is made in the temple, then this oath to murder is made at the same time when oaths NOT to murder are being made (i.e. to be obedient to the Gospel principles). This is an immense discrepancy. A person offering OR seeking good data should settle such glaring discrepancies and seeks their origins and resolution BEFORE making a claim resting on major discrepancies.

I noted further important discrepancies which undermine good data sets.

For example : The data doesn’t even agree on the type of oath, whether it was a prayer that God himself would avenge the wrongs done unto Joseph Smith which is perfectly natural (since vengence is God's), versus “possible” wording indicating that the mormon members were to attempt THEMSELVES to commit murder. The virtually simultaneous opposite oaths create a discrepancy which needs settling before ANY claim can be made. It is simply incredible that mormons would make a covenant to murder at the same time they are also covenanting NOT to murder. I think such data sets should be examined BEFORE being offered for public consumption as “good data”..

I was also given a link to the Reed Smoot hearings, and “In relation to the oath, the testimony was
" shown to be limited in amount, vague and indefinite in character, and utterly unreliable, because of the disreputable and untrustworthy character of the witnesses."
. Despite this admission of faulty witnesses within the link itself, the link is still given as a source of supporting data.

Such silly claims are reminiscent to the mediaeval texts written by anti-semites that "Jews kill Christian children in order to knead bread with their blood.". Though such stuff seems to be obvious “trash” data to most of us nowadays, the very title and claim is remade within the last few years as part of the Serbian clashes and a resurgence of anti-semitism.

Aca Singer quotes from the relatively MODERN article "Ritual Murder among Jews", (which is simply a horrible repeat of prior libels against Jews as killers of innocent Christians).
"When a ritual murder is carried out for [the Jewish feast of] Purim,...” “then the victim is usually a grown-up Christian. “This blood is then dried and mixed with baking powder to make triangular cakes…. It is possible to use the dried blood left over from the murder at Purim for the upcoming Passover festival."
Such horribly inaccurate and malignant stuff is the type of abuse that all religions are subject to by poor data and false claims.

My background in historical interests is partly why I become so disappointed in official destructive wives tails masquerading as data. Historically, such claims regarding Jews and mormons and catholics and muslims are NOT benign, but have been taken up by malignant and unstable individuals to both support their private grudges against groups and provide them the justification to hate and harm such groups.


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Clear

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What defines us as Catholic or Lutheran or Muslim also raises a host of other philosophical and social issues which are very difficult to define and resolve.


WHAT MAKES SOMEONE A CATHOLIC OR A LUTHERAN OR A MORMON OR ETC if it is not belief in and actions consistent WITH their doctrines?

Titles alone mean fairly little (partly because our beliefs become pretty complicated)

If one no longer believes in any of the claims of mormonism or Catholicism and no longer practices mormonism or Catholicism, are they still “mormon” or "Catholic" in their belief and practice?


If a Catholic believes in some of the claims made by the LDS church such as "the necessity of baptism", does that single agreement make the catholic become “mormon” in belief and practice?

What if the Catholic agrees on 2 or 3 mormon beliefs?

How many beliefs must they agree on before being able to call themselves "mormon" (if, for some strange reason, they wanted to)

I may agree with 10 Islamic Doctrines (I actually agree with many of them) and practices and yet may teach against 90 Islamic doctrines and practices. Does this allow me to honestly call myself a “muslim” since I agree with 10 of their doctrines and practices?

What does “involvement” mean for someone who no longer believes in a specific religion?

If I am a Catholic, or Lutheran or Mormon, or Muslim; and then spread negative data that is full of discrepancies (which I am able to detect), what does this mean to my claim to BE Catholic or Lutheran or Mormon or Muslim?

If I claim to be Jewish and then repeat data from the article “Ritual Murder among Jews" as “things which the Jews USED to believe in an practice, but no longer do”. What does this say about my claim to be Jewish?

It is NOT simply a “mormon” issue. This sort of nasty “cut and paste”; “provide an anti-site link” sort of “mud slinging” seems to hurt religionists as a group and is becoming a very poor imitation for real scholarship.


Happyhummingbird and others, if I have offended anyone, I apologize. Perhaps these issues are better fitted for a philosophy forum.


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