I don't know. It doesn't touch on what happens to unbaptized believers.Mark 16:16 says, "He that believeth and isbaptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned." How do you interpret that?
That we can both agree on!Okay, I'll concede that point, although I believe that washing the feet of someone else is a reference to serving our fellow human beings rather than literally washing their feet. We can pursue the meaning of being "born of water and of the spirit" -- again -- if you really want to, but I think we've both said pretty much all we have to say on the subject, and it really is kind of going off-topic.
I meant more that the form of baptism seems arbitrary. Why the importance of being immersed in water? Why not make it spinning around three times instead or hopping on one foot? I don't see baptism as being attached to anything that would have any bearing on the worthiness of a person to receive, well, anything at all, and in that sense, I think it's arbitrary.Since the Latter-day Saints perform proxy baptisms with the understanding that being born of water means being baptized by immersion and not simply being born physically (which is referred to in the Bible as being "born of flesh"), I don't see a lot of point to even looking at our practice of performing baptisms for the day as relating to being "born of the Spirit."
For those of us who believe that ultimately everyone will receive this ordinance, there is nothing arbitrary about it.
But it's only bestowed when a human ceremony is performed, right?The grace of God is contingent upon our obedience -- sometimes to things we don't fully understand. He provides the way and we do what He has commanded. That is grace.
Getting back to your question that started this tanget, though, I wouldn't really have any more of an issue incorporating the idea of a God who deems people Catholic for being baptized by proxy than I would with the idea of a God who deems people Catholic for being baptized as infants, and both of those would be only slightly more difficult to incorporate into my theology than the idea of a God who cares about baptism at all in the first place.