so do you agree that your girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife stay on contact with her/his EX ?
You probably don't want to hear about Doug and me sharing back when we first got together. Eventually we just stopped because we got tired of them. So, I really wouldn't care.
But I will tell you a more relevant true story.
My high school sweetheart Judy and I were together for some time. We even got pregnant, although we lost the baby. We eventually split up, but stayed friends. We met other people and such. She eventually married a guy named Duke. Doug and I went to their wedding and had lots of fun. Duke is a good guy and knows all about Judy and my past.
Well, they have a vacation place way out in the country. One weekend the four of us were going to meet out there for a couple of days. But something happened at Duke's work, so he couldn't come down until the next day. So Judy, Doug and I went anyway. Doug and I brought our new puppy. We partied a lot, drank a little too much, and all fell asleep on Judy and Dukes big bed.
Next morning we were woken up by the phone. Duke was calling to say he was on the way and did Judy want him to bring anything. He asked how things were going. Judy laughed and said, "Great! I'm in bed with my old boyfriend, his new boyfriend, and the dog! We're just waiting for you."
Even redneck Duke thought it was funny.
Either you trust them or you don't.
Tom