PoetPhilosopher
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I have noticed back when I was on the dating scene or more into it, what seems to be increased tension between men and women.
Women still typically want the man to pursue on dating sites. They get quite a few messages more than men. Until they get comfortable, they want control over when the conversation begins and end though. But once they are comfortable, they typically want the men to take a more dominant role than just messaging first. I think.
Meanwhile, the men are either not aware of the #MeToo movement or literally anything that women are looking for, and act like immature jerks, or they are well aware of the #MeToo movement to the extent that they'll be super careful the first three months, and will never take that more dominant role in that time, and also are starting to prefer that women make the first moves and message first. And women may start to interpret this as the "good men" playing hard to get or not being interested in them.
As usual, and for whatever reason, both sides end up seeming to stay on the dating site forever without a relationship. Staying single more than in a commited relationship, showing dating sites rarely work.
But, that's just my perception. I know I've been wrong in the past, but I think I'm getting to perceive things more accurately.
Women still typically want the man to pursue on dating sites. They get quite a few messages more than men. Until they get comfortable, they want control over when the conversation begins and end though. But once they are comfortable, they typically want the men to take a more dominant role than just messaging first. I think.
Meanwhile, the men are either not aware of the #MeToo movement or literally anything that women are looking for, and act like immature jerks, or they are well aware of the #MeToo movement to the extent that they'll be super careful the first three months, and will never take that more dominant role in that time, and also are starting to prefer that women make the first moves and message first. And women may start to interpret this as the "good men" playing hard to get or not being interested in them.
As usual, and for whatever reason, both sides end up seeming to stay on the dating site forever without a relationship. Staying single more than in a commited relationship, showing dating sites rarely work.
But, that's just my perception. I know I've been wrong in the past, but I think I'm getting to perceive things more accurately.