Green Gaia
Veteran Member
Civil marriage is a personal choice that should not be denied by our government to couples just because they are of the same sex. Marriage is commitment between two people. Just like heterosexual couples, gay and lesbian couples grow up dreaming of meeting a partner, getting married and growing old together. They should not be denied their portion of the American dream simply because their chosen partner is of the same sex.
Access to legal marriage is completely unrelated to the right of religious institutions to decide whom they will marry, just as various religious institutions have always made those decisions in regard to heterosexual couples. No church or other religious institution will be required to perform a ceremony for a same sex couple, although some religious communities do perform marriages for same-sex couples and have done so for many years.
If you want to go down the slippery slope, then so will I - if gays and lesbians are denied legal rights, what's next? Voting rights? Housing rights? Civil rights? Are you going to take our children away? If we're not trusted to be able to make a legal contract with another adult, how can you trust us with children?
Let's stay off the slippery slopes, shall we?
I think the Mormons on the forum would tell you otherwise.
According to the 2000 census, there are more than a million children being raised by same-sex couples in the U.S. and they deserve protection as well. Currently, the children of same sex couples are needlessly deprived of the protections that most families take for granted. Is this better than than allowing their parents the legal protections they need to provide stability?
That is simply not true.Victor said:Religious communities would be the first big losers, because religious freedom would become increasingly hard to defend. Even if exceptions were initially made so that religious communities would not be forced to marry gay couples, these exceptions would eventually be challenged in the courts.
Access to legal marriage is completely unrelated to the right of religious institutions to decide whom they will marry, just as various religious institutions have always made those decisions in regard to heterosexual couples. No church or other religious institution will be required to perform a ceremony for a same sex couple, although some religious communities do perform marriages for same-sex couples and have done so for many years.
Victor said:If we were to argue that equality permits no exceptions, moreover, then we would be both morally and legally obliged to oppose current laws against polygamy.
If you want to go down the slippery slope, then so will I - if gays and lesbians are denied legal rights, what's next? Voting rights? Housing rights? Civil rights? Are you going to take our children away? If we're not trusted to be able to make a legal contract with another adult, how can you trust us with children?
Let's stay off the slippery slopes, shall we?
Victor said:It is by no means outlandish, therefore, to suggest that the demand for polygamous marriage would follow directly from the demand for gay marriage, especially in view of the fact that some Muslims and Mormons would approve.
I think the Mormons on the forum would tell you otherwise.
I think I have given many examples already of how the marriage amendments hurts individuals, couples, family and the community.Victor said:First, consider the individual and the community.
GLBT people have children they want to be able to legally protect too.Victor said:Marriage has never before been so heavily associated with the wants and needs of adults as individuals. On the contrary, it has always been heavily associated with the needs of both children
This is absolutely and completely false. The primary beneficiaries of heterosexual marriage are adults, not children as not every marriage produces children. So why use this against gay parents?Victor said:Second, consider parents and children. At first glance, it would seem that gay marriage and gay parenting would symbolically strengthen the bonds between all parents and children. On closer examination, though, this is unlikely to occur. It should be clear to everyone by now, for instance, that advocates of gay marriage are interested primarily or even only in the interests of gay adults. This is inadequately disguised by disclaimers. Yes, some gay people want children enough to make use of surrogacy or other reproductive technologies. And yes, some gay people have children anyway from straight relationships. But the primary beneficiaries are still adults, not children.
According to the 2000 census, there are more than a million children being raised by same-sex couples in the U.S. and they deserve protection as well. Currently, the children of same sex couples are needlessly deprived of the protections that most families take for granted. Is this better than than allowing their parents the legal protections they need to provide stability?