And again, we have only had the technology of space travel and computers for decades, aliens that presumably have been around for a much longer time, would have a much higher probability of attempting these things.
On what do you base this probabilty. We have done it zero times. If they are a million times more likely that would be zero times.
Maybe aliens would invest their entire cultural and economic energy into finding and making their presence known to other lifeforms.
Maybe they would get really distracted waching higher-def TV and veg on the couch for a million years.
What are the odds of one over the other. Hrm... let's see. How much data do we have on how aliens behave.... erm. Zero!
How much do we have on intelligences in the universe? Well, so far 100% of them have stayed on their home planet. 0% have invested heavily in making themselves known to others.
Let's draw out these statistics. In a universe 10% populatied, that has 0 travelling the stars and 100% not.
Again. Where do you draw the base data for your conclusions, other than your simple assuption that something you know nothing about would behave, not only in a way different from the only example we have, but in the way you've decided they would?
We are definitely attempting to DETECT alien life, so why wouldn't they try to contact or detect us, if they existed.
Hypothetically? Because they are all cowards, because they ran out of power, because there's a fleet of stealth-ships cruising around the universe looking for powerful signials to raid inhabited worlds for olives and cocktail weenies.
How would I know. I have absolutely no data on any life outside of Earth. Neither do you. The difference is that I'm not making conclusions that require that I have knowledge I don't have. You are.