Kathryn
It was on fire when I laid down on it.
I understand how things can haunt us. We can find ourselves torturing our minds with thoughts that start with, "If only..." and "What if..."
"If only I hadn't said that..."
"If only I had stopped him..."
"What if she were still here..."
"What would have happened if I had..."
The thing is, there is no such thing as "What might have been." There is only "What is." We can never know what might have been, but we always paint that as the rosiest picture - when what might have been MIGHT HAVE BEEN AWFUL.
"If only I had locked the gate to the swimming pool - my baby would be 32 years old today and beautiful and happy and I'd be a grandmother."
Well - if Hitler's mom had left the gate open to the swimming pool, maybe 6 million Jews would not have been killed.
I know that's an extreme example, but my point is this - it is what it is. We simply have to move forward and make the most out of what and who is in our lives today. Everything could change in a heartbeat anyway. Live and love TODAY.
"If only I hadn't said that..."
"If only I had stopped him..."
"What if she were still here..."
"What would have happened if I had..."
The thing is, there is no such thing as "What might have been." There is only "What is." We can never know what might have been, but we always paint that as the rosiest picture - when what might have been MIGHT HAVE BEEN AWFUL.
"If only I had locked the gate to the swimming pool - my baby would be 32 years old today and beautiful and happy and I'd be a grandmother."
Well - if Hitler's mom had left the gate open to the swimming pool, maybe 6 million Jews would not have been killed.
I know that's an extreme example, but my point is this - it is what it is. We simply have to move forward and make the most out of what and who is in our lives today. Everything could change in a heartbeat anyway. Live and love TODAY.