Hi Britney,ernyrdagur said:I decided to comment for myself.
I really like him as a friend. We work out together and go for a drink (in a group) maybe monthly. I got out of a 3 yr relationship last year and I am not looking for something serious anyway. Do you think I'm doing something immoral?
I don't intend to be his woman. I wanted to make that clear. But i do care about Fred and I don't want to ruin his life if it will do so.
I just wanna have some fun!
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I am sorry you have had to go through a breakup - that is never easy.
Of course you want to have fun; that is perfectly understandable. The trouble is that 'Triangles' never work (not for long); aside from the morality (and that is your decision to make anyway), I can't really add much to what I said before.
My advice ? I hate giving advice, but you have said it yourself in so many words
and so, if pressed, I would say, "Sure, go and enjoy yourself, but try to find someone else with whom to have fun".......But i do care about Fred and I don't want to ruin his life if it will do so