I generally have to ask in a conversation. Our community has been getting a ton of Indian Tamils lately. Young families and young men. Immigration patterns shift. If I understood Tamil. it'd be easier, because of accent.
You may remember that one of my first times at temple, one of the young priests' toddler was there. The little tyke pointed to me and said "tatha!" (my spelling is probably so off it's orbiting Jupiter). The priest said that was Telugu (his mother language) for 'grandfather'. I was flattered in a sort of left-handed way.
The little boy was so adorable you could bite him. In the past two weeks or so that I've been back to temple I haven't seen this priest. My friend at work says they bounce back and forth from here to India at times. There is a crop of new young priests, as well as some from "back in the day", which makes me feel grounded.
Btw, I have to mention that the lady I worked with was one of the most beautiful women I have ever known, of
any ethnicity. Her hair was long, thick and jet black, she had a very dark silky smooth complexion (my ignorance of Indian genetics made me immediately assume she was southern), black eyes, and a sweet manner. She could have been a doll carved from ebony. She was a dang fine employee too... they don't make 'em like that anymore (can you tell I was fond of her?). And I was the only one who could pronounce her name.
Despite the ravages of age
some things you don't forget.
OK, back to the subject, which was... hmm... um...