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Letting someone in your life go emotionally.

Discussion in 'Journals' started by Seeker of White Light, Jan 22, 2022.

  1. Seeker of White Light

    Seeker of White Light Free spirit

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    In the last few days so many good things has happen in my life.
    The part of my life where I chose to live mostly analog (non digital lifestyle) has helped me already a lot, just after a few days with less time spend online ( this visit to RF now is just a short one) i feel less stressed, less frustration and a lot more happiness within me now.

    But in the last few days there has been a huge step in my life emotionally:) i have finally after two years been able to fully letting go of my ex-girlfriend (the disabled one) we are still friends and I have some contact with her, but my help is not needed anymore, she have new people in her life helping her.

    And for me personally, I met up with the woman i met in the end of last year. In the beginning it seemed like friendship was the right way to go ( and still is) but something more than friendship is slowly building, in a very natural way.
    A question i am sure I get is "but you are A-sexual?? Can you have a girlfriend then"

    Yes, since it turns out, she is A-sexual too :) so if it turns in to a relationship it will be without the sexual part. But a very healty spiritual and respectful relationship.
    It will be something new for us both.

    So life can turn from difficult to a lot better in just a few days or weeks :)
    But still there is much i have to work on both spirituality and personally to find a way out of problems created in the past.
     
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  2. RayofLight

    RayofLight My pronouns: they/them

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    I've always found that question funny. Like most folk talk of being in a relationship and it be more then just about sex but the moment you say you asexual they look at you funny. Like there are other things involved in a romantic relationship lol. Folk don't have sex 24/7 in a romantic relationship. Obviously you can have romantic relationship without it then
     
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  3. Seeker of White Light

    Seeker of White Light Free spirit

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    What you say is so true :)

    When I meet this woman, we can look at each other and tell how the other person is feeling, and what one are thinking about right there and then :)

    I believe I found someone who do not need words to express her self, her eyes tell it all.
     
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    RayofLight My pronouns: they/them

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    Hope the relationship works out :)
     
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    Seeker of White Light Free spirit

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    I hope too :) taking day by day is important for both of us :)
     
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  6. mangalavara

    mangalavara Truth Alone Triumphs
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    Congratulations, brother! I hope everything works out absolutely well for you and her with God's guidance and help. :)
     
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    Thank you @mangalavara
     
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