Trackdayguy
Speed doesn't kill, it's hitting the wall
Having a sexual experience with another person is primarily a physical experience that can on occasion transcend into a spiritual experience."An orgasmic state"
If sex is primarily a physical experience which is about giving and receiving pleasure what does it matter who its with as long as their of a legal age and consenting. As some of you who have read my previous posts will know Iv'e been in an Open Marriage for the past 40 years and during that time I've had some incredible sexual experiences with all sorts of people from many cultures, some who I knew well and others who I hardly new at all, in the end what does it matter, because sexual encounters are about connections and the giving & receiving of pleasure, not conformity to social structures that seek to control peoples God given desires.
Maybe God got it wrong and we now need additional rules because if we let people follow their God given natural desire who knows what might happen.
If you enjoy a head massage does it matter who gives it to you, if you enjoy a back scratch does it matter who does it, if your a women who enjoys her breasts being massaged does it matter who does it. If it does then it ceases to be about your own pleasure but the other person. Yes we all know that great sex isn't just about taking, but giving & sharing, so why are we so obsessed & bothered about who we share with, surly the issue is a connection not conformity to social structures.
Just my thoughts
If sex is primarily a physical experience which is about giving and receiving pleasure what does it matter who its with as long as their of a legal age and consenting. As some of you who have read my previous posts will know Iv'e been in an Open Marriage for the past 40 years and during that time I've had some incredible sexual experiences with all sorts of people from many cultures, some who I knew well and others who I hardly new at all, in the end what does it matter, because sexual encounters are about connections and the giving & receiving of pleasure, not conformity to social structures that seek to control peoples God given desires.
Maybe God got it wrong and we now need additional rules because if we let people follow their God given natural desire who knows what might happen.
If you enjoy a head massage does it matter who gives it to you, if you enjoy a back scratch does it matter who does it, if your a women who enjoys her breasts being massaged does it matter who does it. If it does then it ceases to be about your own pleasure but the other person. Yes we all know that great sex isn't just about taking, but giving & sharing, so why are we so obsessed & bothered about who we share with, surly the issue is a connection not conformity to social structures.
Just my thoughts
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