When I was a kid, marriage was a deal. A wedding was a deal, and anyone 'living in sin' was sort of frowned upon by some. Now it's 'meh, big deal'.
I see good and bad. I'm happy that laws have changed enough for victims of abuse to get out of marriage, if it hits nasty rough spots. There are places to turn to, divorcees aren't considered lowly, etc. There's more tolerance all around to the failed marriages.
On the down side, being a traditionalist, I like it. I think it provides a stable place for up and coming citizens to bloom, and still has a place in society. Not marriage itself, but long term stable relationships.
Ideas, thoughts? What's the future of this 'cherished' religious institution?
I see good and bad. I'm happy that laws have changed enough for victims of abuse to get out of marriage, if it hits nasty rough spots. There are places to turn to, divorcees aren't considered lowly, etc. There's more tolerance all around to the failed marriages.
On the down side, being a traditionalist, I like it. I think it provides a stable place for up and coming citizens to bloom, and still has a place in society. Not marriage itself, but long term stable relationships.
Ideas, thoughts? What's the future of this 'cherished' religious institution?