We Jews have groups which are just as extreme as the [FONT="Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][FONT="Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Traditional Latin Rite types, they're called [/FONT][/FONT]haredi. No extremism is from G-d, in my view. I think all groups be they political or religious have extreme fringe like this.
I think G-d is leading you out of this environment, now you see how toxic it truly is. It will be painful, sure, but think of it as detoxification. May G-d bless you and give you strength, and new friends to lift your spirits.
Shalom