The age of consent is relative, depending on the country you live in. It ranges from the youngest of 11 years(Nigeria) to the oldest of 21 years(Bahrain). Most are between 16 - 18 years of age. This includes the USA(16-18 year's old). My personal preference is 18 years old. At this age, their cognitive mental processes, should be developed enough to discern between what is belief and what is fact. At this age they are fully responsible and accountable for any unindoctrinated decisions they make. Both legally and morally. But of course we both know that we are not talking about 15 - 18 year old's, don't we? There are certainly many moral and social positives, to help children develop, having less emotional and psychological problems in their future. But I contend, that it is unnecessary for parents to teach religious dogma to do this. All parents are the child's first society. They only need to set an example for them to follow. Not outsource parenthood to strangers with the same beliefs as theirs. As long as the consequences for disobedience is eternal damnation, religious dogma will always be a form of child abuse. It simply uses fear to maintain control. Children are genetically and physically not you, and it is sheer arrogance to want them to be like you. Guide them in life's experiences, but allow them to grow as predetermines by the nature and their genes. If you must explain the consequences of their actions, simply use real examples relating to real things that they CAN understand.
I do not disagree with anything you said. Parents should set an example for children to follow. Since I have never been a parent, I cannot say if I would send my children to Baha’i Children’s classes and I do not even know what they teach there.
Do you really think that children growing up in communes, will not accept the majority's beliefs, customs and practices? Of course they will. That is the commune's purpose all along.
Of course they would. Children are very vulnerable, especially when they are very young.
If you don't have an objective factual basis to support your beliefs, why influence and manipulate the minds of those, who still believe in Santa Clause? Those that can't distinguish between what is fact and what is fantasy. Are these the only minds that you can convince? What are you frighten of? Exposure?
Nobody should manipulate the minds of anyone else, child or adult.
Not only can't you demonstrate proof of God, but you can't demonstrate proof of anything supernatural or paranormal. If you could produce just one piece of objective evidence, there would be no more atheists or skeptics. This means that you don't even have to prove that a God exists, just evidence that anything else supernatural can exist.
God cannot be demonstrated to exist because God is unknowable and immaterial. Only material things can be demonstrated to exist. Moreover, supernatural is not natural. There can be no objective evidence of that which is not natural, so you can do the math.
Since we are not aware of every action that we make all the time, then it is an illusion that we are self-aware perceptually. This is physical impossible for the brain to do. Maybe you are not influenced by the reactions of others, but neither are fanatics, psychopaths, and depressants. So, I'm not sure what your point is. I am certainly affected by what others think and do. I am not immune to my social interactions. I am the product of these interactions, and how my genes are expressed. Maybe you are truly a very special human being.
I do not claim that we are aware of everything about ourselves. We can only be aware of what is in the conscious mind, not what is in the unconscious mind, which means that there is a lot that we are not aware of. All we can do is strive to be more self-aware by bringing unconscious thoughts and feelings into conscious awareness.
Of course we are all affected by what others think and do to some degree, but it is a matter of degree. If we allow what others think of us to define who we are we are allowing them to define us. If we know who we are we do not need other people speaking for us telling us what we think and feel and what our motives are. Nobody can know that except the person who has those thoughts and feelings and motives. It might be okay to say something like “it sounds like maybe you are thinking x” and posing it as question, but when people say “I know you are x and that is why you do y” that is arrogant.
That kind of communication forces the recipient to correct the person doing the critique and it invariably turns into a power struggle, especially when the one doing the critique comes back and tells you that you are wrong about yourself and they know more than you do about yourself. That is why “I statements” are best if we are talking about anything personal. Questions posed to others about themselves are okay, and people are generally receptive to questions. If we are talking about what we believe or disbelieve anything is fair game, as long as people are respectful.
Evidence of course makes things real. Without evidence Santa Clause is real. Without any objective evidence, things only exist in the mind until they can be demonstrated in reality.
I guess you missed my point. Reality exists regardless of any evidence we have to prove it. If Santa Claus was real he would still be real regardless of our ability to prove he is real. Likewise, if God exists, God exists. The fact that God can never be demonstrated to exist has no bearing on whether God exists or not. Evidence is simply what people want so they can know God exists.
It is an x, y proposition, God either exists or not. What people believe or disbelieve about God does not change reality, as reality is not dependent upon beliefs. Reality simply exists.
If a murder was committed, the fact that it cannot be proven that the murder was committed, since the dead body cannot be found, does not change the reality that a murder was committed. The fact that it cannot be proven that Mr. Smith committed that murder does not mean Mr. Smith did not commit that murder. He either did or did not, x or y.
Never mistake belief for evidence. Beliefs are conceptual, and evidence is perceptual. Most Atheists and skeptics are perceptual believers. There is no evidence for an afterlife. And judging by the numbers of believers waiting in line to quickly find out, I think I might be right. Most people may want to believe in an afterlife, but very few want to die to find out. This sounds more like hope rather than belief. Since death is an absolute certainty in most species, it is totally irrelevant and academic what happens afterwards.
There is some evidence of an afterlife, but it is not perceptual since nobody can perceive the afterlife through the senses, since it is not physical. Moreover, nobody has been there and back to tell of it. So what we have for evidence is what religions teach. Near death experiences are not proof of an afterlife but they are proof that there can be consciousness outside of the body, so that indicates that there is a soul that lives on. Spirits have communicated to mediums from the spiritual world and what they describe is evidence for some of us.
Death of the body is a certainty but death of the soul is not. It is not totally irrelevant if the soul lives on in another form and if what we do in this world determines what kind of afterlife we will experience. Of course we cannot prove that so those who choose not to believe it might be in for a surprise. Conversely, if there is no afterlife then nobody will be surprised because they will no longer exist.