Trackdayguy
Speed doesn't kill, it's hitting the wall
Years back I remember watching a documentary about a 60s experiment where they put a bunch of nude males and females into some kind of observed environment and left them to get on with it. It ended badly, despite trying to be "free from all inhibitions" etc. Some ladies didn't want to be sex toys for the guys who just wanted to be constantly at it.
They tried the whole "it's your social inhibitions/conditioning on a sobbing, pretty blonde who was clearly having a breakdown. But back then there was a utopian hippy assumption about a lost natural freedom to do what you want, when you wanted to with no crass, socially imposed restrictions.
I remember reading something similar, could have even been the same thing. For years the mentality of most men is "sex is something men want but women have", and that women dont like or want sex. That has not been my experience. My experience has been very different and has been since I started showing interest in women when I was 18. To some degree I've been blessed with reasonably good looks and all I can say is nearly all the women I know are highly sexual and it doesn't seem to mater what age they are. I'm 65 and one of my female friends, is a 36 year old interior designer, she is highly sexual, shes actually a friend of my wife. I think the problem for most people is they are unable to envision being sexual with someone when there are no romantic feelings, its called social programming. Being sexual is about pleasure.
To have different experiences one has to think at a different level, most are unable to do that so in their smugness they sit back and judge. Being in an Open Marriage for 41 years has been a wonderful experience for both my wife and I.