Welcome to Religious Forums, a friendly forum to discuss all religions in a friendly surrounding.
Your voice is missing! You will need to register to get access to the following site features:We hope to see you as a part of our community soon!
Do I love her? Not exactly without experience at 62, I find I do. I'm healthy and fit, but sex is no main factor in our relation. I won't go into details, but I honestly believe that we both would be as happy as now, even if we skipped all physical exercises beyond just being very close. Love, to me, is more of seeing to that she gets what she needs to be reasonably happy.jgallandt said:With age comes maturity. Sometimes when you are young, you don't realize what you want, you only know what you think you want. Then comes a time when you realize that what you thought you wanted, was not really what you want, and all that you need is right in front of you. Finally satisfied.
Some people try to fill the void in there life with sex, never really being satisfied, always wanting more. Then one day you realize that love is the only thing that will fill that void, and if you are lucky enough you will have a woman that truely loves you as much as you love her. filling your sexual need starts with filling your heart. Sex without true love left me feeling empty, incomplete.
I've seen "you people." Please tell me you don't drive a Hummer..jgallandt said:I'll edit it! Sorry. trying to type and drive.
I suppose the question then becomes, is it your responsibility to protect her in this way? Lets analyse exactly what is going on in each situation.Darkdale, if the woman your with found out that you where fantasizing about someone else, do you not think that would hurt her? If you where thinking about someone else while making love, and called her by the wrong name, do you not think that would hurt her? (Good way to get your willie chopped off too!) Sensitivity towards another's feelings. Caring about their needs, not just your own.
jgallandt said:Darkdale, if the woman your with found out that you where fantasizing about someone else, do you not think that would hurt her? If you where thinking about someone else while making love, and called her by the wrong name, do you not think that would hurt her? (Good way to get your willie chopped off too!) Sensitivity towards another's feelings. Caring about their needs, not just your own.
I guess ya never learned how to use the different ways. Poor manSolon said:I don't see how you can masturbate without fantasing about somebody. I mean, imagination is a big part of the pleasure involved. I only ever have fantasy's about the same girl with whom I had a torrid relationship with. Sadly, for me, I choose to throw her away. The grass seemed greener somewhere else at the time, but with the passing of time, I have realised it wasn't. But she still turns me on in my head, and provides me with plenty of stimulating thoughts and memories.
S