tumbleweed41
Resident Liberal Hippie
Yes you are.So it is a complicated situation, and I just don't see where morality fits into it for me. Maybe I am just missing something.
You are confusing your feelings with what is morally acceptable and unacceptable.
As you should well know, feeling justified, or using selfish means to come to a decision, in no way confirms that your actions are moral.
Even your consideration of the wishes of the dead is selfish on your part. The dead are either gone, or have no concern for the material world. By ensuring their wishes are carried out, you are only fulfilling your own need to satisfy those wishes.