Spiderman
Veteran Member
So, one of my least favorite people here who I've had to push out of my room, peel his hands off my door knob, and who is the reason I lock my door while in my room is giving me a gift card, handshake, and kind words to make up for what he stole from me.
I know a lousy gift card ain't much, but I'm proud of him and all my anger ceased.
I didn't think he would ever try to make up for it. So, since my anger at him ceased, I think that means we are friends to some extent.
I feel sorry for the guy. I don't think I will trust him much, but don't think I can still fight with him or push him out of the room now that I'm touched to see him trying to make amends.
I don't want to keep letting him in my room, but bottom line is he disarmed my anger. He really wants our friendship restored for whatever motive.
Now I feel like I have to be kind to him. Any suggestions? I think he's probably mentally ill, and I have much compassion for such people.
What would you do if someone repeatedly had no respect for your boundaries and stole from you, but you see him sincerely trying to make amends, and you know that much of his mental condition is not his fault?
I look forward to hearing from someone more mature, prudent, and wise than myself.
I know a lousy gift card ain't much, but I'm proud of him and all my anger ceased.
I didn't think he would ever try to make up for it. So, since my anger at him ceased, I think that means we are friends to some extent.
I feel sorry for the guy. I don't think I will trust him much, but don't think I can still fight with him or push him out of the room now that I'm touched to see him trying to make amends.
I don't want to keep letting him in my room, but bottom line is he disarmed my anger. He really wants our friendship restored for whatever motive.
Now I feel like I have to be kind to him. Any suggestions? I think he's probably mentally ill, and I have much compassion for such people.
What would you do if someone repeatedly had no respect for your boundaries and stole from you, but you see him sincerely trying to make amends, and you know that much of his mental condition is not his fault?
I look forward to hearing from someone more mature, prudent, and wise than myself.