1. Jesus is NITHER son of god NOR god
Jesus says about himself as son of man in several places for example
"when the son of man (Jesus pbuh referring to himself) shall sit on the throne of his glory, ye (the disciples) also shall sit upon twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel" (Matthew 19: 28).
In another place
And Jesus saith unto him, The foxes have holes, and the birds of the air have nests; but the son of man (referring to himself) hath not where to lay his head. (Matthew 8: 20 also repeated in Luke 9: 58 )
the son problem arrived I think simply because Christianity accepts it in its literal sense due to foreign myth (Greek), the fact is the prophets and pious people called by the word son of god by people. In other words this indicate the close relationship with god due to their goodness.
This is clear from following.
And you shall say to pharaoh, thus says the lord, Israel is my first born son (exodus 4:22)
.for I am a father to Israel and ephraim is my first born (jeremiah 31:9)
There are so many other places like this, calling others also son; in fact peacemakers are called sons of god
Blessed are the peacemakers. For they shall be called sons of god. (matthew 5:9)
I believe Jesus place him self to this meaning, that is he says he is a son as others, its clear in John 20:17 I ascend unto my Father and your Father; and to my God and your God.
Mean time during Jesus period Greek myth was dominating among people. Zeus and Hercules kind of relationship were well taken among people. The meaning was relaxed to get the attention of Romans and this can analyze with the historical evidences.
More than this God should be pure from all acts that bring limitation, by giving birth to a child god becomes limited (as this is an instinct belong to creation). He is pure from these acts. Anything limited with need cannot be a god.
On the matter Jesus is god. Lets see in little detail.
People might consider Jesus as god due to two reasons.
1. His ability to predict future
2. His miracles.
We know before Jesus so many prophets came and they made prophecies. This doesnt mean that they are gods, mean time because of those prophecies we call them prophets, and since they brought the message of god, we call them messengers.
The reason behind the claim also cant be his miracles. Even other prophets and people did this.
§ Jesus fed 5,000 people with five loaves of bread and two fishes.- Elisha fed 100 people with twenty barley loaves and a few ears of corn (II Kings 4:44)
§ Jesus healed lepers- Elisha cured Naaman the leper (II Kings 5:14).
§ Jesus caused the blind to see- Elisha caused the blind to see (II Kings 6:17&20).
§ Jesus raised the dead- Elijah did the same (I Kings 17:22). So did Elisha (II Kings 4:34). Even Elishas bones could restore the dead (II Kings 13:21).
Moreover Jesus himself submitted that people who have faith could do such things.
And he says to it, let there be never more fruit of thee for ever. And the fig-tree was immediately dried up. And when the deciples saw (it), how immediately the dried up! and jesus answering said to them, verily I say unto you, if ye have faith and do not doubt, not only SHALL YE DO what (is done) to the fig-tree, but even if ye should say to this mountain, be thou taken away and thou cast into the sea, it shell come to pass. (Mathew 21:19-21)
Therefore the above cannot be taken as proofs to believe that Jesus is god, mean time there are crystal clear evidence to say Jesus is not the god almighty from events and his own words.
First of all he had meals with others as normal man, this is a need for survival and god should be free from needs. Because god should not feel the hunger as normal creatures, if he get so, he is needy, how come god is in need?
but early in the morning as he came back in to the city, he hungerered(mattew 21:18)
In the Gospel according to Mark 13:31-32, Jesus is also reported to have denied having knowledge of when the final hour of this world would be, saying: Heaven and the earth shall pass away but my word shall not pass away, but of that day or hour no man knoweth, neither the angels in the heaven nor the Son but the Father. One of the attributes of God is omniscience, knowledge of all things. Therefore, his denial of knowledge of the Day of Judgment is also a denial of divinity, for one who does not know the time of the final hour cannot possibly be God.
Again If we look at his own words, crystal clear Jesus is not the god.
Its clear from bible god is one Jesus and his disciples do not claimed on trinity.
Hear Israel: the lord our god is one loard: (mark 12:29)
in Matthew 19:17, Jesus responded to one who addressed him as O good master, saying: Why callest thou me good? There is none good but one, that is God. If he rejected being called good, and stated that only God is truly good, he clearly implies that he is not God.
In John 14:28, Jesus was saying: The Father is greater than I. By stating that the Father is greater than himself, Jesus distinguishes himself from God. Also in John 20:17, Jesus told Mary Magdalene to tell his followers: I ascend unto my Father and your Father; and to my God and your God. Jesus reference to God as my Father and your Father further emphasizes the distinction between himself and God. Furthermore, by referring to God as his God, he left no room for anyone to intelligently claim that he was God.
Further more, Jesus said unnecessarily he will be worshiped due to some peoples teaching
"But in vain they do worship me teaching for doctrines the commandments of men" (Matthew 15:9).
Its better to analyze this a bit. No place in the bible Jesus own word states that either as worship me or I am god. However at a place he says worthlessly people will worship me due to commandments of men. Isnt this clear evidence to say he is not worth worshipping?