Bird123
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Sure, thinking is necessary, and I can still make certain choices in my life without my ability to feel positive emotions. But, our thinking alone doesn't allow us to see goodness, beauty, tragedy, horror, and worth in things. Only our emotions do that. We need to have a positive perspective in life, which means we must see goodness, beauty, magnificence, and worth in things, and avoid a negative perspective, where we see things as bad, horrible, disgusting, tragic, etc.
So, our goal in life should be the positive emotions, since they're the only positive perspectives, which means they're what are important. So many people say that we should have a positive perspective in life, and avoid a negative perspective, since having a negative perspective is no way to live. Well then, we need positive emotions, and we should avoid negative emotions, since negative emotions are no way to live.
A life without emotions (apathy) is also no way to live. If you wish to know how how our emotions are the only positive and negative perspectives, then I'll explain. If you have a proud thought, then that thought will make you feel proud (a positive emotion). If you have the thought that something's beautiful, then that thought would make you feel that this thing is beautiful, and that feeling of beauty would be a positive emotion.
Feelings are how we experience things. For example, feeling hungry is how we experience hunger, feeling thirsty is how we experience thirst, feeling sleepy is how we experience sleepiness, feeling love (a positive emotion) is how we experience love, feeling pride and happiness (positive emotions) is how we experience pride and happiness, and feeling that life's beautiful is how we experience life as beautiful.
Perception and experience are the same thing. For example, if you're seeing (perceiving) the color red, then you're experiencing red, and vice versa. If you're feeling that life's beautiful, then you're experiencing life as beautiful, which is the same thing as saying you're seeing (perceiving) beauty in life. In addition, if you feel love, you're experiencing love, and that's the same thing as having a loving perspective. So, that's why we need positive emotions to see goodness, beauty, and worth in things, and to have a happy, loving perspective.
Again, a life without a positive perspective/outlook is no way to live, and that's why a life without positive emotions is no way to live. If you lose your positive emotions, then you lose your ability to perceive/experience things as good, beautiful, and worth living for, and you'd lose your ability to experience love and happiness, just as how you'd lose your ability to experience hunger, thirst, and sleepiness if you lost your ability to feel hungry, thirsty, and sleepy.
What is Beautiful? WE all have the power to choose what we decide is beautiful. There is deciding in there. On the other hand, you want it all to come to you without much thinking. Sure, feelings are important and that's why they exist. On the other hand, you have experienced what happens when you choose to make feelings everything. Leave out the thinking and you could end up lost.
You fight so hard to suppress that thinking half and yet that is the only thing that will bring you resolution. Go ahead. Be stubborn. Those who need to change but refuse will hurt and hurt until they realize that it is easier to change instead of staying the same.
The choice has always been yours. You at least know what to choose when the time comes not to hurt anymore.
You have all my Love and Kindness!!
Tap Dance all you want. It will do you no good.
Get angry. Find someone to Blame, like God. It will do you no good.
What results are you getting Stewing over all this? Nothing.
What is that wonderful old saying? When the going gets tough,the tough get going.
Keep you eyes on the Prize. The only things that matter are the Results. How are you doing with that? It's all in your hands. CHOOSE!!
Smoke and Mirrors along with ignoring the truth never bring resolution no matter how bad you want it.