Djamila
Bosnjakinja
What are some of your favorite quotes, words you most try to live by?
One of the most important quotes in my life comes from Munira Subasic. She's a survivor of the Srebrenica massacre (The July 11, 1995, execution of 7,000 Muslims in Srebrenica, Bosnia). She was asked if she blamed the Serbian people, collectively, for what happened, and she said:
"I have a daughter, what sort of mother would I be if I taught her to hate, to judge? I don't blame the Serbian people, it wasn't the 'Serbs' that did this to us. It was individuals, people with names, and those are the names my daughter is going to hear when she asks where her father his, where her aunts and uncles and cousins are."
It's a lesson that I really needed to learn at the point in my life that I first read it. It really made me a much better person, one of those moments where something in your heart clicks and you just change.
Another of my favorite quotes comes from Amira Hasanovic, an Islamic religious expert from Bosnia. She was not the first to say it, but she was the first I heard it from. "Be the change you want to make". I think that's so wise. If you want the world to be a more tolerant and more peaceful place, be more tolerant and be more at peace with yourself.
Another of my favorite quotes is a Jewish proverb from Bosnia. They say, "Nothing is worth more than this day."
In a more generic, international sense - one of my favorite quotes is "I no doubt deserved my enemies, but I don't believe I deserved my friends." - a lesson in humility.
I also like some funny quotes, like "Dear Jesus/Allah/etc., please save me from your followers. Amen." and "Kinky is using a feather. Perverted is using the whole chicken."
One of the most important quotes in my life comes from Munira Subasic. She's a survivor of the Srebrenica massacre (The July 11, 1995, execution of 7,000 Muslims in Srebrenica, Bosnia). She was asked if she blamed the Serbian people, collectively, for what happened, and she said:
"I have a daughter, what sort of mother would I be if I taught her to hate, to judge? I don't blame the Serbian people, it wasn't the 'Serbs' that did this to us. It was individuals, people with names, and those are the names my daughter is going to hear when she asks where her father his, where her aunts and uncles and cousins are."
It's a lesson that I really needed to learn at the point in my life that I first read it. It really made me a much better person, one of those moments where something in your heart clicks and you just change.
Another of my favorite quotes comes from Amira Hasanovic, an Islamic religious expert from Bosnia. She was not the first to say it, but she was the first I heard it from. "Be the change you want to make". I think that's so wise. If you want the world to be a more tolerant and more peaceful place, be more tolerant and be more at peace with yourself.
Another of my favorite quotes is a Jewish proverb from Bosnia. They say, "Nothing is worth more than this day."
In a more generic, international sense - one of my favorite quotes is "I no doubt deserved my enemies, but I don't believe I deserved my friends." - a lesson in humility.
I also like some funny quotes, like "Dear Jesus/Allah/etc., please save me from your followers. Amen." and "Kinky is using a feather. Perverted is using the whole chicken."