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HEATHEN ALASKAN
Please cite your sources for all these assertions.
LOL! How do I cite nonexistant material? There is nothing about "marriage" in Tanakh.
Secondly - is the Tanakh the only thing the Jews ever wrote?
Obviously not, - however - Tanakh is supposedly straight from God, - and all later materials are man discussing and arguing them.
You know well that is not what I meant. Secondly it is clearly not true.
Yes it is true. Animal studies show males will mount both males and females. It is ridiculous to assume only male-female attractions took place in the ancient past.
Thirdly incestuous relationships have also been going on for a long time. But they are taboo now and have been for a very long time - as have homosexual relationships. So the operative word you should have paid attention to was "normal". Did the people of the time consider it normal or did gay people have to conduct their relationships undercover?
Incest does not equate to homosexuality. Incest is now banned because we know of genetic problems in offspring.
Homosexuality = same-sex attraction/LOVE. And hurts no one.
Again, sources for all these wonderful assertions would be appreciated.
LOL! Sources for the obvious? You think a God source zapped down a male and a female then held a marriage ceremony??? LOL!
As I said - humans first just had sex. Later we get more and more complicated ritual.
The so-called "marriage" at Cana uses the word - gamos. Look up the ancient original meaning.
As I said, - For instance - if you look up the Greek Hieros gamos - you will find it is a coming together in a sex rite.
Modern translations often say - holy/sacred marriage, but that is obviously not the meaning of the Greek Hieros gamos, as it was a temporary coming together in a SEX RITE representing original creation.
It would also help if explained exactly why the marriage would cease to be a marriage, or a wedding cease to be a wedding, if the situation was as you describe (but I first need sources for you assertions).
LOL! Again - need no sources for the obvious - see above.
And you have that backward. I said nothing about marriages ceasing to be marriages.
I said - what is being CALLED marriage in our ancient past - was NOT "marriage," as defined today. Getting together for sex is not marriage. Being given as a sex possession from one male to another, - is not "marriage." It is legal possession of a sex object.
So the Jews were so patriarchal, women were nothing more than property, but they weren't patriarchal enough stop people from having sex with others of the same sex? So these men, who were so keen to own women they sometimes had multiple, allowed women to take themselves out of the marriage pool by declaring themselves to be lesbian? Are you really thinking about what you are saying?
Indeed, these cultures were patriarchal, and women were property, as is obvious by their laws and writings.
Why would patriarchal ideas jump full bloom into any situation? They grow over time.
Women as possessions were not allowed to make a choice. We also know they were married off before they could even know their sexual orientation. Apparently for the Hebrew, - a child three years and one day old could be given to another male for sex - through sex.
Babylonian Talmud. "Rabbi Joseph said, 'Come and hear. A maiden aged 3 years and a day may be acquired in marriage by coition.'
MISHNAH: A girl of the age of 3 years and a day may be betrothed, subject to her father's approval, by sexual intercourse.
GEMARA: Our Rabbis taught: 'A girl of the age of 3 years may be betrothed by sexual intercourse."
Historian Josephus, Antiquities, XIX, 354 - It is even stated that - "A girl aged three years and a day may be acquired in marriage by coition, and if her deceased husbands brother cohabited with her, she becomes his." - 80
And note - those are translations - no "marriage." Ownership by taking the maidenhead, - making her used-property to other men.
Okay, so I would appreciate it if you gave a timeline for the "Kind of Patriarchal" to "Full Patriarchal". And as always, sources would be great.
LOL! I don't have to give a timeline, or sources, for what is common sense. Ideas obviously grow.
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