Booko said:
Yes, there are some pretty tough rules, but if people aren't asked to live up to them somehow, then what's the point? It really comes down to this: if you believe Baha'u'llah was what he said he was, then you have to find a way to live with the rules, because it's the same as telling God to shove off if you aren't even willing to try. If you don't believe Baha'u'llah is who he said he was, then all bets are off. This probably comes of as kinda fundamentalist, but it's meant more as a plain statement of the basics. It really is kinda...basic.
But Booko, this is so different from the teachings of Christ. When we talk about tough rules and people living up to them or being disciplined, well, it just does not strike me as the KOG. It stikes me as a less mature way of dealing with each other, rather than a more mature way. I see the Law that God gave Moses not as 'mere suggestions,' but as His divine guidance for how to get along better with each other. How to respect each other. The choice wine. It is the narrow path. He covered it pretty well in the ten commandments and the Golden rule. And yet people began to bludgeon each other with the Law. That was what Christ objected to, IMV.
And who is punished if we don't follow the rules? We are. Not the KOG. We can break every rule in the book but the KOG remains perfect. We simply remain far from it. And if you believe God did give new rules to follow, breaking them does not break His Covenant with you, whatever your scriptures say that to be. That would be a contract. God fulfills His promises to you whether or not you follow the rules. You can't break the Covenant, and He won't.
And do you think that I don't stuggle with the Law? Heck, I breaksome or a few of them every day. Every single day. And I feel that, and I bring myself to account over it. And if there's a biggie, and there have been, I've got to repent that too, but it might take a lot longer to face. Between me and God, and a Priest only if I so choose. You don't have Priests. You've got to trust the indivduals that they know when they are breaking the rules and are working on it with God, even if they don't want to or are not ready to share that with their LSA. If you sanction them do you think it will be more likely or less likely that they grow closer to God?
IMV homosexual Baha'is are indeed marginalized, and that is a complaint I make often in Baha'i circles: in the US, we need to get off our rears and start having a conversation about the topic. We can't delay any longer. But that's a problem I see more at the local level than other levels. It's a problem of individual Baha'is who get the heebeejeebies over homosexuality, and they need to overcome their fear of the topic and start viewing homosexual people as Abdu'l-Baha would have. "See the face of God in everyone." That doesn't mean we have to participate in gay rights parades, but sheesh, I'm sorry, people who are gay should never be treated as lesser humans!
You sound quite reasonable about this topic and I hope you all do open it up for consultation. When I questioned this it was not avoided, nor was I evaded. I was invited to talk about it as much as I wanted. I think I declared in an outstanding community as far as being mature about the guidance on homosexuality. If I told you which one you would know. But the bottom line is the writings. But I still think talking about it more would help a lot.
I'm not sure how adoptive parents are disrespected, but I left another post to Scott on that earlier. I'm adopted. The NSA made it *very* clear to me that I was not to disrespect my adoptive parents. I got their permission, and if I hadn't, I wouldn't have gotten married. If I hadn't, the NSA would not have removed my Administrative Rights, true, but as I alluded to Scott, I think this is a temporary situation, and one that applies mainly in our culture. Other cultures don't feel adoptive parents are disrespected, because adoption is completely different.
I saw that post. Thank you for sharing your experience.
re: being sufficiently grounded in the Covenant. Laurie, I've never seen anyone being declared a Covenant Breaker merely because they were not sufficiently grounded in the Covenant. I've not seen the House jump the gun on declaring people Covenant Breakers. Long before that, they send you people from the Institution of the Learned to sit down and explore the Writings with you. But there is a point where, if you are UNWILLING to accept the existence of the Covenent and even try to follow it, then by what right do you call yourself a Baha'i?
I don't remember which of my comments prompted this response, but anyway. I don't think anyone is declared a CB without more or less trying to usurp the authority of the House (although some individual Baha'is make it sound like just thinking for yourself on the issues makes you one). As I said above, one can't break a Covenant with God, but here we are talking about something else I think.
But there are people who 'interpret' the Covenant differently. Yes, I know, to interpret it differently is to deny it. But that's based upon what the majority of Baha'is have come to believe. It is a doctrine of the Faith. Warning, here comes another pet peeve. Baha'is are quite happy to say 'anyone who claims to be a Christian is a Christian as far as I'm concerned' regardless of what else they may believe. Yet, when it comes to who is a Baha'i, well, the lines in the sand are deep and defended fiercely. But heck, I actually agree with you here. I don't see 'unenrolled' as an option. That's why I'm so confused by 'disenrolled.'
If a Christian says they don't believe the Gospels and the Church tells them they're not a Christian, I don't think that's "oppression" -- it's more like sound reasoning.
But, umm, a Christian can deny the diety of Christ and the physical resurrection? BTW, the Church (capitol C) does not tell anyone anything except through Scripture, Sacrament and Prayer. The RCC, the EO, the Epsicopalians, the Baptists, we might have different ways of doing things or else why bother being part of the community. And when the Rom Catholic Church was in the business of excommunicating people who broke their laws, while it was the only game in town, yes, I think that was oppression. Plenty of people oppressed right out of existence by that approach to things.
Well, it's hard to make criticism of something without being critical, eh? I don't think you've been at all unreasonable. Heck, you're just stating your pov and your experience. I don't get that you have an axe to grind or anything like that.
Hope that these recent posts have not changed your opinion of me.
Besides, I am fond of pointing out that Abdu'l-Baha said "The shining spark of Truth cometh forth from the clash of opposing opinions."
Please note it does not refer to the "murmur of fake assent" -- it says "clash" for a reason. Abdu'l-Baha was not careless in his use of language, nor are translators careless in rendering it into English. I much prefer real unity to "faux" unity.
Faux unity won't get anyone anywhere.
I quite agree.
Oh, there are definitely growing pains to be had. And because we as individuals are not perfect, there is no system that will function absolutely perfectly. At most, I will say I believe there are more checks and balances against abuse than there have been previously. That doesn't mean that everything is awful about Christianity (obviously NOT true, and I do my share of Christian apologetics elsewhere) either today or in the past. I consider it obvious that the world would be much worse off today if the Church never existed.
I 've noticed your apologetics, quite tight. And I certainly agree with you about the Church!
Are you aware of the two-tiered approach in Tehran to voting for LSAs? It's done specifically to address the problem you mention above. I would vote for a delegate that I did know and whose judgement I trust, and that delegate votes for the LSA members, who he or she is more likely to know. I expect this model to be expanded where needed.
Interesting to hear this. The voting part sounds quite reasonable, but as you said that does not make it immune from corruption.
Actually it's on the community level where I've encountered the problems. This is not to say the NSA is always perfect, but they've been the remedy when the stuff hit the fan locally.
I think that we are still learning what the ideal is. This is why the House and even the NSA give so many reminders about "maturation of institutions." Clearly, they know we have much to do to live up to what the BAO is supposed to be.
We are called the "children of the half-light" for a reason.
I do wish you success and fewness of growing pains. Even if I can't conclude it is the KOG, I think there is much good in the Faith, especially in promoting racial harmony. I'm with Queen Victoria on this one: if it is of God it will succeed.
It's been really enjoyable talking to you, Laurie. Thanks for the bouquet. Is there anything in particular you would like? I'd hate to send coffee to someone who doesn't like it.
I love coffee, but decaf after lunch time thanks.