pah said:
There is very much an atheist desire and hope that religion will be practised by individuals. Any religious or religion that needs to force society into one of the conflicting models of religion is ultimately un-democratic.
-pah-
First, religion is not a democracy. As far as forms of government go, Plato holds there are 5 functional forms of government. Monarchy, Oligarcy, Timocracy, Democracy, Tyranny, in that order.
Second, I can only speak for the Catholic Church, but they do not force society or anyone into doing anything. They merely present the truth, the truth that will ultimately lead people to happiness. If people don't follow, the Church doesn't knock on their door and punch them in the face... that is free will.