JayJayDee
Avid JW Bible Student
Jesus sent them out two by two to find deserving ones. He never said make them deserving.
No one can make anyone "deserving". Searching for the deserving ones is a Christian's job. We are merely the 'planters' and 'waterers'. It is God who makes a seed of truth grow.
"What, then, is A·pol′los? Yes, what is Paul? Ministers through whom you became believers, just as the Lord granted each one. I planted, A·pol′los watered, but God kept making it grow, so that neither is the one who plants anything nor is the one who waters, but God who makes it grow. Now the one who plants and the one who waters are one, but each person will receive his own reward according to his own work. For we are Gods fellow workers. You are Gods field under cultivation, Gods building." (1 Cor 3:5-9)
To believe he said go make disciples is just one interpretation of Matthew 28:19. The making of disciples causes heartache, broken families and even war. How can you believe the Prince of Peace sanctioned that?
Jesus answers that.....
"Everyone, then, who acknowledges me before men, I will also acknowledge him before my Father who is in the heavens. But whoever disowns me before men, I will also disown him before my Father who is in the heavens. Do not think I came to bring peace to the earth; I came to bring, not peace, but a sword. For I came to cause division, with a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. Indeed, a mans enemies will be those of his own household. Whoever has greater affection for father or mother than for me is not worthy of me; and whoever has greater affection for son or daughter than for me is not worthy of me. And whoever does not accept his torture stake and follow after me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds his soul will lose it, and whoever loses his soul for my sake will find it." (Matt 10:34-39)
If the evangelising work was not important, then why was it a main feature of the ministry of both Jesus and his apostles?
Why did Jesus say that the truth would divide families if it was not to be so? It is the opposers who create the division. Christians were urged to continue to love their unbelieving family members. Peter said they could be "won without a word" by the conduct of their family members who accepted the truth. (1 Pet 3:1, 2)
I personally have a wonderful relationship with my non Witness family members. They are as entitled to their beliefs as I am. Mutual respect and love do not allow personal differences to create problems, unless bigotry rears its ugly head.
To love and obey the shepherds whom he appointed is also what it means. (Heb 13:17) These are to keep watch over our souls, so without having a global brotherhood with which to meet, (Heb 10:24, 25) and without these shepherds to guide us in the right way, we are demonstrating that we are not members of the Christian congregation.He said it. To love and obey him is to know what it means.
No Christian can be a one man band.