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which religions are joyless

JoStories

Well-Known Member
Christian sin is strongly associated with pleasure. especially sexual or against the possessions of others.
I can not imagine that there can be more than one creator God....When Creation was done it was done.
However this does not limit the possibility of other gods. The Jews and early Christians were certainly open to the Idea. that other people had other gods.
I agree and disagree. I agree that most gods are out there, in some form for the various faiths, particularly in the case of Hinduism. I disagree that sin is associated with pleasure. Almost all sins are designed to promote one to NOT have pleasure. I know some Christians who firmly believe that the only position for sex is the missionary and strongly argue against oral sex in any form. Sin is something I strongly believe was conceived by these faiths to keep people in line with whatever rules the faith may have or have had. As for God and creation, I believe in evolution. There is just too much evidence that we evolved. The newest being that cave in South Africa which I find totally fascinating. A third evolutionary link as it were. And why can't God be big enough to have stirred the pot of evolution but still be big enough to have many faces?
 

MrMrdevincamus

Voice Of The Martyrs Supporter
The distinction between Joy and pleasure is difficult to express but I am sure there is one. I do not believe that pleasure is necessarily selfish and that both pleasure and Joy can be shared. However Joy is an inner emotion that is mostly inward and personal and it is in response to something else. Whilst pleasure in momentary and is usually active.

Yes, I was going to mention the internal nature of Joy but couldn't get my thoughts right this morning! I suppose its time for the 1st cup of coffee, eh?
 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
Sin is simply doing something that God does not agree with. He doesn't agree with it because it is always harmful to us or others in some way.
How do you know for a fact that God doesn't agree with something? And what is wrong with stealing from a garden when one's children are starving? What is harmful about that? Or harmful about white lies that keep a person's confidence up and not delving into depression?
 

MrMrdevincamus

Voice Of The Martyrs Supporter
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JoStories said:
I find that the concept of sin is one of the most useless concepts ever to have come from the Christian or Jewish faiths. What do you consider sin?
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Hi Jo. The bible is not easy to read for many reasons. I had forgotten how difficult it was until I began reading in its entirety another difficult document , ie the Koran and related writings. Sin to the christian mind is simply an immoral act or one that goes against the teachings of Jesus or God. Being religious means we try or should try to live by those teachings. Engaging in some sinful acts can be serious or more serious than committing an capital offense of mans law. Also knowing what is sinful and what isn't gives Christians moral guidelines, and an 'reality anchor' (my words for a way to compare or decide what is right and wrong). Most serious sinful behavior has counterparts in the rule of western law. Examples of serious sins; Committing adultery, murder, stealing, and giving false witness, slander and others.
 
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MrMrdevincamus

Voice Of The Martyrs Supporter
How do you know for a fact that God doesn't agree with something? And what is wrong with stealing from a garden when one's children are starving? What is harmful about that? Or harmful about white lies that keep a person's confidence up and not delving into depression?

We know what Gods will is by his words i.e. the bible. Also, farmers were instructed in scripture to leave 'gleanings', which is leaving crops in the fields for the poor and hungry.....(below) An example of God saying to leave food for the poor and others~

Leviticus 23:22

And when ye reap the harvest of your land, thou shalt not make clean riddance of the corners of thy field when thou reapest, neither shalt thou gather any gleaning of thy harvest: thou shalt leave them unto the poor, and to the stranger: I am the LORD your God.
 

Terrywoodenpic

Oldest Heretic
Sin is simply doing something that God does not agree with. He doesn't agree with it because it is always harmful to us or others in some way.
not quite as simple as that. Most sins have been put into God's mouth by men., for their own benefit.
It is perhaps better to think of sins as those actions that harm other people or God's creation.
If they do no harm they are not sins.
 

Thief

Rogue Theologian
ya gotta have humor.....

dare not make a joke about belief?
THAT is a sorrowful following
 

Thief

Rogue Theologian
and I noticed in my concordance to the bible......
the word.....smile......is not there

and...

laughter is dealt for ridicule
 

Kent856

Member
God might well question the actions of the man that did not give to the starving poor, so that steeling was not necessary

Absolutely right. A person could be held responsible for a persons death if they had the opportunity to help. The details of judgement I trust to God though.

they do no harm they are not sins.

True :) but how do we know what's best for us? In the short term and the long term, we aren't wise enough to be able to foretell the outcome of allowing one thing or another. Thus, I choose to simply trust God to guide me in what's right.
 

YmirGF

Bodhisattva in Recovery
Buddhism is terribly joyless! We are obsessed with suffering and we spend all day staring into the void, we have no sense of humour at all.. :p
This basket full of bliss feels your pain. It's a dirty job, but someone has to do it, eh?

not quite as simple as that. Most sins have been put into God's mouth by men., for their own benefit.
It is perhaps better to think of sins as those actions that harm other people or God's creation.
If they do no harm they are not sins.
I really like this idea, Terry. Why is it that people feel we are just not good enough as we are? The idea being that most people are simply "good" people. I don't understand the need or twisted desire to micromanage the behavior of the ordinary person. Is orthodoxy the bane of joy? @Terrywoodenpic

To drawn an analogy, I appreciate a need for structure or rules and they are necessary to a degree, but one must also appreciate when the rules are no longer necessary. For example, when building a chair or a table, you MUST follow certain basic rules. You need to start off with a simple drawing with the measurements required. Double check to make sure it all works. Then you get your wood or whatever material and measure it 3 times first and then make your cuts once. After mock up, to ensure the pieces all fit together, one makes tiny adjustments and proceeds to the sanding stage. It's at this stage that one can toss aside the construction rules.

From this point you still need to follow surfacing rules, and finishing rules, but that is very much a mood thing or a creative thing. You need to follow the proper procedures for any given finish, but again you have a huge amount of leeway on how you want to finish, how smooth you want the surfaces to be, what stain or no stain, glue or nails, glue and nails, etc...

What I trying to say is that one needs to understand why the rules exist and from there one has considerable leeway on how to apply or ignore given rules. The rules are important, but understanding is the key. Am I babbling or does that make sense? I'm thinking of one carpenter from yesteryear who might like the analogy. :)
 
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Terrywoodenpic

Oldest Heretic
This basket full of bliss feels your pain. It's a dirty job, but someone has to do it, eh?


I really like this idea, Terry. Why is it that people feel we are just not good enough as we are? The idea being that most people are simply "good" people. I don't understand the need or twisted desire to micromanage the behavior of the ordinary person. Is orthodoxy the bane of joy? @Terrywoodenpic

To drawn an analogy, I appreciate a need for structure or rules and they are necessary to a degree, but one must also appreciate when the rules are no longer necessary. For example, when building a chair or a table, you MUST follow certain basic rules. You need to start off with a simple drawing with the measurements required. Double check to make sure it all works. Then you get your wood or whatever material and measure it 3 times first and then make your cuts once. After mock up, to ensure the pieces all fit together, one makes tiny adjustments and proceeds to the sanding stage. It's at this stage that one can toss aside the construction rules.

From this point you still need to follow surfacing rules, and finishing rules, but that is very much a mood thing or a creative thing. You need to follow the proper procedures for any given finish, but again you have a huge amount of leeway on how you want to finish, how smooth you want the surfaces to be, what stain or no stain, glue or nails, glue and nails, etc...

What I trying to say is that one needs to understand why the rules exist and from there one has considerable leeway on how to apply or ignore given rules. The rules are important, but understanding is the key. Am I babbling or does that make sense? I'm thinking of one carpenter from yesteryear who might like the analogy. :)

Rules are for the ignorant And thoughtless. When you truly understand the implications they are no longer necessary. But will probably still be followed.
 

YmirGF

Bodhisattva in Recovery
Rules are for the ignorant And thoughtless. When you truly understand the implications they are no longer necessary. But will probably still be followed.
You know that reminds me of something I've said a number of times over the years. Laws aren't made for people like me. Here I mean the "Laws of the land", as it were. The point is that, by my very nature, I don't "break" those laws, as a rule (pun intended). The laws are in place to curb the behaviors of those who cannot exercise good personal judgment for whatever reason. In some ways, if people could embrace their natural joy, their natural grace, they would move more effortlessly through life because they would not need to pay attention to what they are doing that might be wrong. If they are in tune with their natural grace/joy they would not be doing anything wrong to begin with... well, not too much that really matters.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Wanderer From Afar
Premium Member
I would agree with you. I find that most Christian faiths, particularly the fundamentalists, are very without joy. As a Buddhist, I find life to be full of both joy and sorrow but that is the path of a Buddhist, to learn from our lessons in this life to be ready for the next. Having worked in nursing my entire career, I know firsthand that the people who are dying who are Christian are the most likely to be unable to let their loved ones go on. DNR or DNI is often rare among this group. Doctors have often told us nurses to enact a "slow code" with someone in their later years, such as over 90 and who are suffering horribly. A slow code means we walk VERY slowly to the patient and just really let them go. I can say with no difficulty that I have coded elders whose ribs I have broken with the compressions, and I mean that literally. I just wish Christians would let them go.
I'm unsure if that's more a matter with the modern Western difficulty with facing the reality of death rather than an issue of Christianity itself. My mom was Catholic and she passed away in a hospice this January, and she signed a DNR order. My sister, who lives on the other side of the country and who didn't have to deal with it in a direct way, was more upset about that than I was. I just wanted her suffering to end. I mentioned to a nurse at the hospice that what my mom was going through makes me wish that euthanasia was legal in those contexts.
 
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