Well, forgive me but that response is misleading. You are saying, in effect, that by overcoming and dealing with the trials of life we can become stronger and better prepared for what else life might throw at us in the future. And indeed hardships and negative occurrences can be character building and may help us to develop an indomitable spirit. But that by no means is to say that suffering is good and necessary. We wouldnt for example argue as individuals that we have personally benefitted from suffering and therefore suffering is not a bad thing generally, when others are suffering real pain and wretchedness. That would hardly be Christian!
In relative terms it can be said to be good to cut off the hand of a man who is trapped in revolving farm machinery, which would otherwise drag him into the mechanism causing his death. So, yes, minor or lesser suffering is frequently used to alleviate an even greater suffering, but that only serves to confirm the problem, which is that great suffering exists. But as it cant be argued that an omnipotent God must create and cause suffering it follows that there is no contradiction in God creating a world without suffering.
And I really dont see how someone dying from cancer, for example, has a choice or is supposed to benefit from being taught something other than the fact that no merciful and compassionate God has come to them in their hour of need. It is bad that people (and animals) have to suffer, and it isnt necessary if there is a God.
See, Without God, That is your perspective.
With God, It's something else entirely.
Nothing is truly bad, Everything is simply more, A step, A path.
Don't be angry or disheartened, There is a reason for everything, Just because you are unaware right now, Doesn't mean there isn't something greater going on
I know it's hard to see it, Because you're looking with Godless eyes, And we won't be able to agree until you understand and experience God, I know some would say that seems arrogant, But all I'm saying is that you and I have different perspectives.
Suffering is good and necessary, And I stand by that.
It's the flesh that is greedy and selfish, The flesh that needs to be denied.
Anyway, I'm sounding a bit preachy, So I'll finish up.
You really shouldn't say 'That wouldn't be very Christian of you' Or anything similar, It's putting expectations on people just because of their faith, And that's hypocritical.