rageoftyrael
Veritas
So, i'm gonna preface this by saying that I'm an extremely non violent person.
I have friends who hit me, just playing around, and i only hit them back cause i know from experience they won't stop if i don't hit them back. To further explain this, generally, when someone hits me, i don't even have the desire to hit them back. None whatsoever, I just want them to stop hitting me.
Another about myself is that I'm terrified of conflict. Generally, this manifests in two forms. The first is that I hate to ask people for things. It has to be really important for me to ignore my fear and ask. The second is I am inordinately terrified in any situation that is angry. That is actually a large part of the reason of why I'm so easygoing. It's easier for me to just let something go then confront someone and be terrified. I would like to clarify that when i believe it to be important, I will stand up and say something.
So, the pattern here is i'm nonviolent, and that I often avoid real conflict. I've been this way for most of my life. Until recently....
I am now 25, and i'm beginning to stand up for myself more now. I'm not sure why. It's not something I decided, it's just that i'm more willing to do it. I'm no less terrified in these situations, lol, I just do it anyway.
The reason I started this thread though, is that for a little while, I've been going out for walks, and I'll see people. This started a few months ago. Not the seeing people part, but the next part, lol. Before, when i see people, i'm always nice and friendly. Wave, say hi, nod in their direction, whatevs. Still do actually, but i digress. What has changed now is that when i see people, I get a very strong desire to harm them in some way. Generally something along the lines of punching them in the face. This is an equal opportunity desire too, I get the same feeling when i see a kid.
Don't freak out, I've never assaulted anyone. Honestly, the feeling always dies very quickly. Though I must say that part of the feeling is me imagining doing it. If i want to punch them, I see myself punching them. This will flash through me when i see people. Don't know why. I think it's mostly going away, but i'm wondering why this happened.
Opinions? Feel free to psychoanalyze me.
I have friends who hit me, just playing around, and i only hit them back cause i know from experience they won't stop if i don't hit them back. To further explain this, generally, when someone hits me, i don't even have the desire to hit them back. None whatsoever, I just want them to stop hitting me.
Another about myself is that I'm terrified of conflict. Generally, this manifests in two forms. The first is that I hate to ask people for things. It has to be really important for me to ignore my fear and ask. The second is I am inordinately terrified in any situation that is angry. That is actually a large part of the reason of why I'm so easygoing. It's easier for me to just let something go then confront someone and be terrified. I would like to clarify that when i believe it to be important, I will stand up and say something.
So, the pattern here is i'm nonviolent, and that I often avoid real conflict. I've been this way for most of my life. Until recently....
I am now 25, and i'm beginning to stand up for myself more now. I'm not sure why. It's not something I decided, it's just that i'm more willing to do it. I'm no less terrified in these situations, lol, I just do it anyway.
The reason I started this thread though, is that for a little while, I've been going out for walks, and I'll see people. This started a few months ago. Not the seeing people part, but the next part, lol. Before, when i see people, i'm always nice and friendly. Wave, say hi, nod in their direction, whatevs. Still do actually, but i digress. What has changed now is that when i see people, I get a very strong desire to harm them in some way. Generally something along the lines of punching them in the face. This is an equal opportunity desire too, I get the same feeling when i see a kid.
Don't freak out, I've never assaulted anyone. Honestly, the feeling always dies very quickly. Though I must say that part of the feeling is me imagining doing it. If i want to punch them, I see myself punching them. This will flash through me when i see people. Don't know why. I think it's mostly going away, but i'm wondering why this happened.
Opinions? Feel free to psychoanalyze me.