VoidCat
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Tagging @Shadow Wolf. Cuz I want to see if there's an equivilant to this with assigned male at birth transfolk.
So as yall know Im trans. Nonbinary to be exact assigned female at birth. I plan on medically transitioning soon. As part of that I have to go to therapy. So I've just been thinking up trans related stuff that bothers me to bring up with the therapist. Cuz while my gender hasn't caused many issues I do feel I should have at least one session venting such frustration. And i been thinking of one thing that really bothers me but I can't for the life of me figure out why folk think this is ok. This has happened to me 3 times by this point. Basically I bind my chest and my tits look flat right? Well then i go talk to a group of mostly ciswomen and for some reason someone feels it's ok to touch my chest and basically feel me up and point out how flat it is. I get i just performed the magic trick of teetus deletus and the person is probably surprised but like no dont touch my chest without asking. I might be ok with someone touching there and seeing how flat my chest is from binding if we were close and someone asked. But all three times no one asked. They just touched. Then im just like what the hell? Like why would someone think it's ok to just randomly touch someone's breast area even if it is under binding material without asking?
Im just venting here if anyone wants to comment feel free. I just wanted to vent somewhere about this.
So as yall know Im trans. Nonbinary to be exact assigned female at birth. I plan on medically transitioning soon. As part of that I have to go to therapy. So I've just been thinking up trans related stuff that bothers me to bring up with the therapist. Cuz while my gender hasn't caused many issues I do feel I should have at least one session venting such frustration. And i been thinking of one thing that really bothers me but I can't for the life of me figure out why folk think this is ok. This has happened to me 3 times by this point. Basically I bind my chest and my tits look flat right? Well then i go talk to a group of mostly ciswomen and for some reason someone feels it's ok to touch my chest and basically feel me up and point out how flat it is. I get i just performed the magic trick of teetus deletus and the person is probably surprised but like no dont touch my chest without asking. I might be ok with someone touching there and seeing how flat my chest is from binding if we were close and someone asked. But all three times no one asked. They just touched. Then im just like what the hell? Like why would someone think it's ok to just randomly touch someone's breast area even if it is under binding material without asking?
Im just venting here if anyone wants to comment feel free. I just wanted to vent somewhere about this.