But wouldn't giving one member of a family eternal life and snuffing out the other family members (on account of their disbelief) be hard on the saved family member, as it would mean eternal life separated from their loved ones? Living forever, but never seeing them again and knowing they are no more?
That sounds pretty harsh to me...
So are you saying that if your brother, or sister or mother, or father, or aunt, or uncle, or son, or daughter, were to murder someone, or rape and torture to death someone, you don't think the law should give them life in prison, or the death penalty, if it is law?
I hope that's not what you are saying, because that seems pretty unjust, and callous to me. It even seems selfish, as though the person is only interested in self, and what they want.
Some people, cry out for their family members to be pardoned from just punishment, while calling for the same punishment, for someone unrelated, but isn't that partiality?
The Bible does not present God as unfair, and unjust. Nor is he partial.
(Romans 2:6-11)
6 And he will render to each one according to his works: 7 everlasting life to those who are seeking glory and honor and incorruptibleness by endurance in work that is good; 8 however, for those who are contentious and who disobey the truth but obey unrighteousness there will be wrath and anger, 9 tribulation and distress, upon the soul of every man who works what is injurious, of the Jew first and also of the Greek; 10 but glory and honor and peace for everyone who works what is good, for the Jew first and also for the Greek. 11 For there is no partiality with God.
I prefer a person who does what is right and just, without partiality, and who does not accept bribes. Don't you?
If anyone - family member, or not - does something deserving of death, whether by man's law, or God's, the particular authority can take them. For I believe in what is fair, just, and right.
If I am the guilty one, then punish me, according to the due punishment.
If I unrepentantly sin against God, I deserve death.
Even now, I don't deserve life, but by God's grace, I live, and have the opportunity to receive the gift of everlasting life.
That's what it is, isn't it - a gift.
The wages of sin is death. Should we not be grateful that, God loved the world so much that he gave his only-begotten Son, so that everyone exercising faith in him might not be destroyed but have everlasting life. (John 3:16)
Do you believe an ungrateful person deserves God's gift?
Would you give a free home to people who don't care about you, and disrespect you, and do the most disgusting things?
Not I.
(Hebrews 10:26-31)
26 For if we practice sin willfully after having received the accurate knowledge of the truth, there is no longer any sacrifice for sins left, 27 but there is a certain fearful expectation of judgment and a burning indignation that is going to consume those in opposition. 28 Anyone who has disregarded the Law of Moses dies without compassion on the testimony of two or three. 29 How much greater punishment do you think a person will deserve who has trampled on the Son of God and who has regarded as of ordinary value the blood of the covenant by which he was sanctified, and who has outraged the spirit of undeserved kindness with contempt? 30 For we know the One who said: “Vengeance is mine; I will repay.” And again: “Jehovah will judge his people.” 31 It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.