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Ya'll may think this is silly and childish

U

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
but throughout my life, I never had any feelings to be with a guy. No upbringing that severely clashed with my sexuality. No outside influence. Unfortunately, no LGBTQ Community (that came about recently). I had no idea or concept in my head that dating and being with a guy has somehow crept into my life before I realized I am gay. Guys werent in my worldview in dating. Its like (it is) growing up with no sense of who I should be with as opposed to someone else.

Many people think we become gay, disordered, bad genes, a choice, or so have you. They bcome gay by sexual experiements and all of that. Its not prideful as in belittling others experiences. Im just glad I wasnt involved in all of that. Those views make me upset, yes; but, insofar, I am so connected to the LGBTQ Community, how can I not be insulted. On theother hand, we each have different experiences growing up as LGBTQ. I am glad my experiences were not influencial.

Sorry. Had to say that.
 
Ellen Brown

Ellen Brown

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If it bothers you, perhaps you'd want to get a Doctor to check your genetics, not your ancestry but whether you are XX, XY or intersexed. I am XXY non Kleinfelter's, and to find out more I'd have to spend thousands more. They also surmised that I was some form of AIS (Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome) There are thousands of types of intersex. Inbreeding can cause all sorts of issues.
 
U

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
Ellen Brown said:
If it bothers you, perhaps you'd want to get a Doctor to check your genetics, not your ancestry but whether you are XX, XY or intersexed. I am XXY non Kleinfelter's, and to find out more I'd have to spend thousands more. They also surmised that I was some form of AIS (Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome) There are thousands of types of intersex. Inbreeding can cause all sorts of issues.
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I am glad my experiences were not influencial.....Im just glad I wasnt involved in all of that. Those views make me upset, yes; but, insofar, I am so connected to the LGBTQ Community, how can I not be insulted. On theother hand,

Context.

Of course it is normal to have empathy and concern for people with whom I connect. And, I am proud I dont have those experiences nonetheless.
 
Ellen Brown

Ellen Brown

Well-Known Member
Unveiled Artist said:
I am glad my experiences were not influencial.....Im just glad I wasnt involved in all of that. Those views make me upset, yes; but, insofar, I am so connected to the LGBTQ Community, how can I not be insulted. On theother hand,

Context.

Of course it is normal to have empathy and concern for people with whom I connect. And, I am proud I dont have those experiences nonetheless.
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In my OWN experience, it seems that the L>>>>>> crowd are insecure, so often make demands of others so they can feel more secure.
 
U

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
Ellen Brown said:
In my OWN experience, it seems that the L>>>>>> crowd are insecure, so often make demands of others so they can feel more secure.
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As a whole? I know I am not insecure in relation to making demands of others. Maybe just around the people you know and experience and observe??
 
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