I concur with
@exchemist that: "
The chances of a contact between 2 organisms are a lot higher than the chances of a simultaneous or near-simultaneous contact between 3 or more."
But the topic raises a broader question for me about sexual dimorphism.
Sex is not as simple a concept to define as many think.
You have chromosomal sex and phenotypic sex (internal and/or external physiognomic, behavioural and secondary sex characteristics) for a start.
Then, we could have - or very well may not depending on the science - differently sexed brains with some evidence suggesting that males and females have dimorphic volumes of brain cortical gray and white matter
.
For a majority of humans, that all lines up fairly nicely into a kind of neat "sexual dimorphism" or duality when all is said and done. I, for instance, am a genotypic, phenotypic and (presumably) neurotypic male whose gender identity is also masculine.
But for a large minority of human beings this is not and has never been the case. Every culture has people who don't confirm to the sex or gender binary.
There are people who are chromosomally male (XY) but due to complete androgen sensitivity are phenotypically and neurotypically female, as well as having a feminine gender identity post-puberty, who were born with vaginas, developed breasts and have all the secondary external characteristics of women.
Then you have "men" with Klinefelter syndrome who are phenotypically male but are actually XXY chromosomally, which means that genetically they aren't quite male or female because they have both the female genotype (XX) and contain the make one as well (XY). Some of these "men" develop a few of the secondary sex characteristics of women, despite having penises and testes.
And you have a lot of variations in between. For instance, some studies suggest that transgender people - while genotypically and phenotypically male or female - have brains ("neurotypes") that are more closely sexed to their perceived gender identity.
So....is sex really as simple as the apparent easy dimorphism would imply? For most of us, yeah it probably is, but across the board there are a fair number of intersexed and transgendered people and this all emerges naturally, nor has evolutionary adaption weaned these traits or anomalies away.