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I know. but see it's like playing the lottery. The more tickets you buy, the bigger chances of winning. Exceptional women are rare.kreeden said:And think of the dressing up as using bait . It attacts more game .
IMO, it was not because you tried to dress your worst that attracted women, it was because of your attitude. The " leave me alone and give me space " mood, can easily resemble a cocky, "you can't have me" attitude, which attracts women. That's why I do this around women. I make them work, I give them a challange. I'll step forward, then take two steps back, step forward, then take two steps back.kreeden said:Don't get me wrong here . All of the above is good advice . But as for the " looking good " thing , there has been times when I personally have tried to look my worst ... I was in a " leave me alone and give me space " mood , and as strange as it may sound , that attracts people too .
The original OP was, about why jerks get the women, and I think I've explained it in my first post in this thread, and Mr. Spinkles pretty much explained it.Mr. Spinkles said:"shooting yourself in the foot".
:biglaugh:Very nice sunstone! You must be a chick magnet!I find that the most impressive thing I can do is conscientiously braid my armpit hair. It's attention to details like that that create the perfect first impression.
Not on RFExceptional women are rare.
Like I said , it is like using bait . You attract more to choose from .Cynic said:I know. but see it's like playing the lottery. The more tickets you buy, the bigger chances of winning. Exceptional women are rare. .
Them are the scarely types eh ? Yea , I have met them too .Cynic said:It attracts the other kind too. One girl didn't know much about me, but she asked me, "wanna get married?" (she was serious) .
That was my point . It takes all types . Although we all share many asspects , I think it kinda silly to group everyone person in the world into little pockets . Saying things like " Women like .... " , that type of thing . No doubt some do . Perhaps most do . But there are those who may not . We are indiviluals . And if you want to get to know someone , then you have to treat them as an indivilual .Cynic said:IMO, it was not because you tried to dress your worst that attracted women, it was because of your attitude. The " leave me alone and give me space " mood, can easily resemble a cocky, "you can't have me" attitude, which attracts women. That's why I do this around women. I make them work, I give them a challange. I'll step forward, then take two steps back, step forward, then take two steps back..
And as I said , we all are jerks . Sometimes , to some one . The main thing that makes these guys jerks is that they are getting the girls , and we are not . True jerks are as rare as exceptional women . Either are all that rare , depending upon your defination . Or both are extremely rare , again depending upon your defination .Cynic said:It's not about trying to be someone else, it's about gaining skills so you will be successful in getting what you want. If you play the nice guy, you are The original OP was, about why jerks get the women, and I think I've explained it in my first post in this thread, and Mr. Spinkles pretty much explained it.
And do people fish without bait? Otherwise, how does one expect that they are going to catch any fish? A nice guy doesn't know how to fish.kreeden said:Like I said , it is like using bait . You attract more to choose from ....Them are the scarely types eh ? Yea , I have met them too .
Of course.kreeden said:That was my point . It takes all types . Although we all share many asspects , I think it kinda silly to group everyone person in the world into little pockets . Saying things like " Women like .... " , that type of thing . No doubt some do . Perhaps most do . But there are those who may not . We are indiviluals . And if you want to get to know someone , then you have to treat them as an indivilual .
Well, there is a reason why they get the women. Anybody can use the same bait and use the same techniques in fishing, and you don't have to be jerk. There are baits that women don't respond to and some that they find irresistable. It's all about learning what works and what doesn't. But the nice guy who uses a hook without bait or uses bait that fish do not consistently respond to, he's not going to catch a fish unless if there is one that is really hungry, and it's going to be even harder trying to find the fish he's been looking for. Do you wanna settle with a hungry fish, or do you want to find the one that you've been looking for?kreeden said:And as I said , we all are jerks . Sometimes , to some one . The main thing that makes these guys jerks is that they are getting the girls , and we are not . True jerks are as rare as exceptional women . Either are all that rare , depending upon your defination . Or both are extremely rare , again depending upon your defination .