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Jehovah our God is One
Yes, now I understand what you mean. But I am still trying to figure out how you knew I got my ex-wife from a wheaties box.
was she made of plastic
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Yes, now I understand what you mean. But I am still trying to figure out how you knew I got my ex-wife from a wheaties box.
This is generally speaking of course... but why do some people think that you need to be married before you have sex?
was she made of plastic
...God instituted marriage...
No, it didn't.Gods standard was for sex to only be carried out between married couples because sex is the means to bring forth children in the world. It is a protection for the unborn, as it ensured the child would have both mother and father to care for it.
It's a legal bond established for the equitable division of property and the insurance of the care of children in the case of separation.
If there's no marriage, there's no legal bond to be divided. This protection is quite valuable.
How do you know this? How do you know it was God that came up with the idea of marriage and not the "legal system".
History of Marriage
One source says marriage was implemented to protect bloodlines.
No, it didn't.
For most of human history, one of the greatest killers of women has been childbirth.
If God really was interested in ensuring that a child would have both a mother and a father to care for him/her, then why would he have set up a system where the mere act of becoming a mother created a significant likelihood where that child would be deprived of at least one parent?
Adam and Eve acting independently is something they were supposed to do. God told them they had their individual agency. We all get our individual agency from God.its called independence and its the legacy Adam and Eve left us.
God wishes for us to grow up so that we don't need to depend on Him. He is our Father, not our eternal tyrant.If mankind were to remain dependent on God and God was actually governing us, then we would not have the problems we have.
because the genesis account gives us information about the original first human pair who God created. As I believe this account to be literal and factual, i take my understanding of the history of marriage from there.
After God created the woman, he brought her to the man and made them a couple. This in essence is the first marriage ceremony and it set the stage for how marriage ceremonies were performed thereafter.
All over the earth in all different cultures and among people of different religious faiths we see that the marriage ceremony is very similar to the one described in Genesis.
Now days if a girl flirts with a guy he has it in his mind he just needs to figure out a way to get her alone to immediately collect on the goods. Thus, I believe today's society makes it far more awkward for girls to be flirtatious and enjoy their charms and beauty in an innocent way.
Adam and Eve acting independently is something they were supposed to do. God told them they had their individual agency. We all get our individual agency from God.
Where Adam and Eve got us into a fix is because they succumbed to forces inticing them to disobey what God taught them would have negative consequences if they did disobey. It was their improper and unwise use of that agency that got us into trouble.
God wishes for us to grow up so that we don't need to depend on Him. He is our Father, not our eternal tyrant.
What this all boils down to is that it is a bad idea to have sex if the people who are having sex do not agree on why they are having sex.Sex before marriage can complicate the heart. When your young and think you know everything you jump before you look. This leave many people (mostly women) left feeling hurt and used. How many times have you heard women say all men are dogs, they only want one thing. Where do you think they got this image. Giving of yourself is the most personal and prized gift. Only you can give it, people that easily give themselves and are left feeling used hold on to that pain. This emotional scaring can cause low self esteem and resentment of others. If you are unable to see past the sins of former partners you will carry it on to the next one or over look the good intentions of the "Good Ones". It can be a never ending pattern of bad choices in partners. There are plenty of good people out there that don't want a person that has been around a lot. Which would leave you with only users. However, if you are a person that has no moral objection to being used then this is no problem for you. Or, being with a mate that's had dozens of partners you should be fine. Ladies I'll tell you men know if your willing to give it up and how easy you will be. I use to decide before I would approach a woman my full intentions. If you want to know how much they value you, then you would wait (sensitive men should wait as well). If we only want one thing we will be out quick and push the issue.
Does that meen that sex before marrige that doesn't cause pain is NOT a sin?Sex before marriage is a sin because of the pain that can come with it.
I call it 'practice'.Why is it a sin to have sex before marriage?
Why is it a sin to have sex before marriage?
Interesting that Jesus' quote of Deuteronomy doesn't match the original text: it turns "does" to "must".Jesus promoted dependence on God
Matthew 4:4 It is written, Man must live, not on bread alone, but on every utterance coming forth through Jehovahs mouth."
and the isrealites were taught that dependence on God was vital to life
Deut 8:3 So he humbled you and let you go hungry and fed you with the manna, which neither you had known nor your fathers had known; in order to make you know that not by bread alone does man live but by every expression of Jehovahs mouth does man live
They might be, but we would not.And im fairly certain that if Adam and Eve had of remained dependent on God, and rejected independence, they would still be alive today.
I see it differently. In the framework of the story, Adam does not only give death to humanity; he gives us life, both literally (by fathering humanity) and spiritually (by being responsible for our moral sense). Adam is the new Prometheus: he steals a prize from the God(s) and shares it, thereby bestowing humanity on human beings.Remember, it was because of their disobedience that they were condemned to death...we cannot live dependently of God, he is our source of life.
I think that message is a bit oversold. Speaking for myself (and hypothetically, since I'm married with no plans to change this), my partner's sexual history would never be a "dealbreaker" either way. Whether she's slept with thousands of people or has never slept with anyone, if the connection is there, things will work out. And if the connection isn't there, things won't work even if she's got the exact right amount of sexual experience (if such a thing exists at all).I can tell you one thing. no modern man would be that interested in developing a sex life with an inexperienced virgin.
You want her to know how to pleasure you, just like she wants you to be able to pleasure her.