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Why Do Women Stare?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Cynic, Nov 10, 2007.

  1. Scuba Pete

    Scuba Pete Le plongeur avec attitude...

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    Yeah, we can tell how much attention you are not giving her! :D Bwahahahaha!

    ASK HER OUT! Don't wimp now... go for it before you fully chicken out!
     
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  2. Cynic

    Cynic Well-Known Member

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    I really want to, but I'm just afraid that asking her about the staring may have made it awkward. There wasn't any nervous laughter, more like regular laughter. But I dunno.... I want her bad, though I have been trying hard not to let it slip.

    I found out that she was in a relationship with her boyfriend for a while, probably over a year. He made her into a Christian. If she goes out with me... Well, lets just say I'd corrupt her in more ways than one. (Or maybe she wants a bad boy to convert).

    But that just makes me curious. I mean, one of the reasons why I decided to ignore her was because she had a boyfriend. Why dump him now, when they've been in a relationship for a while? And if I take the rebound, I guess it's going to be a casual fling type of thing. (Well which is what I want anyways).

    Don't get violent with me girl...

    *double slaps MysticSang'ha* :slap: :slap:
     
  3. angellous_evangellous

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    Talking to her about a restraining order is not what I meant when I said, "play it cool."

    As I said, youth is wasted on the young. :rolleyes:
     
  4. MysticSang'ha

    MysticSang'ha Big Squishy Hugger
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    So ask her, already!

    Hey! You slapped me first! I was quietly sipping tea and thinking out loud to myself when you threw down.

    *pulls out favorite whip*

    Yeah, but attractiveness mixed with age and wisdom is a kind of sexy beast that is like fine wine. It tastes better. It's more valuable. And it intoxicates you all the same. ;)




    Peace,
    Mystic
     
  5. Don Penguinoini

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    Lol. True.
     
  6. Cynic

    Cynic Well-Known Member

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    Not talking about a restraining order, saying "Don't make me get a restraining order" with a smile on my face. It would fall under the category of teasing or mixed-signaling.

    [Edit:
    For example:
    "Lets be friends," *passionate kiss*
    "You've been a good girl today," *spank*
    "You can't have me," *passionate kiss*
    "You don't deserve this," *give massage*]
     
  7. angellous_evangellous

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    Exactly, that's not my idea of playing it cool.
     
  8. Cynic

    Cynic Well-Known Member

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    What is your idea of playing it cool? Would my idea come across as too obvious?
     
  9. angellous_evangellous

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    Either prentend like she doesn't exist or just march right up to her and ask her if you can take her out for a cup of coffee or something. If she asks why, calmly tell her you just want to get to know her because she's absolutely gorgeous. If she says yes, then ask her if you can have her number, and if not give her yours.

    If she's really staring at you all the time, this kind of thing is not rocket science. Just add water.

    The restraining order and stalking bit I think would completely ruin your chances.
     
  10. Cynic

    Cynic Well-Known Member

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    Oh, ok I'm sorry... Do you want a big squishie hug?





















    *triple slaps MysticSang'ha* :slap: :slap: :slap:
     
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  11. Cynic

    Cynic Well-Known Member

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    Oh ok. I thought it might do that. Thanks for the advice. I think I will do just that (ask her out for a cup of coffee). I talked with a teacher and a girl about this in person, and they said to pretend like the staring never happened.

    Do you think I would have already ruined any chances with the stalker bit? Or would there still be a chance, since she laughed/joked about it?
     
  12. MysticSang'ha

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    Yeah, right. I give you a trademark Big Squishy Hug, and I can see you jumping to the conclusion that I want to get in your pants. :p

    *cracks whip* k-CHA!!




    Peace,
    Mystic
     
  13. Cynic

    Cynic Well-Known Member

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    You know, the whip is a bit kinky... :flirt:
     
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  14. Cynic

    Cynic Well-Known Member

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    OMG, I just went to pick up my pizza and saw the staring girl's friend there at the cash register (who is in the same class)!

    She was like, "you're stalking me now" in a joking manner. Then she talked about things relevant to our class. She was very nice though.

    Anyways, I think I'll definitely ask the staring girl for her number the next time I have class with her.
    I think I'll take both of them out for a cup of coffee.
     
  15. Mercy Not Sacrifice

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    You STILL haven't asked her out? Man, I'm not sure who you're playing games with--her or us. :D
     
  16. Cynic

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    I've decided to close the door on this one.
    This girl is psycho. Among the many things she told me, she has shared that she has bipolar, is on medication, apparently has issued with violence, that she has been sexually molested by two girls, and had bisexual experiences, etc. She also says things out of context. Something keeps telling me that there just isn't something right about this girl. I think she lies pathologically too. (The only thing now for me is her beauty, but I don't care much about that).

    She doesn't seem to be as interested. Although, I still saw both her and her friend looking at me.

    Good news is that I do have a study buddy now. I'm supposed to be meeting her this Saturday.
    Shes an older woman who has also been staring at me, but doesn't have issues like this one starring girl.
     
  17. nutshell

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    So when all is said and done, I was right after all.
     
  18. Cynic

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    Uh no, she was interested. But that window pretty much closed after I told her she gave me the stalker eye. She and her friend still noticeably glanced at me a couple times yesterday, but I can tell the interest just isn't there anymore (like before).
     
  19. MysticSang'ha

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    How preoccupied are you with women staring, looking, or glancing at you? Since this thread is mostly the only way how I know you, Physis, my first impression of you is that you are nearly obsessed with women giving you attention with their eyes, and that you are also quick to make judgements on the nature of any sort of attention coming your way from other women.

    Why is that?




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  20. Cynic

    Cynic Well-Known Member

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    For the most part, I'll admit that I was obsessive over that one girl. I honestly don't know why other than having feelings--and I guess there were several things about her intrigued my mind.

    No. I don't make judgements on any sort of attention. If a girl is just looking, perhaps glances and looks away, I don't put any connotation behind that. People look at me all the time for whatever reason. But for example, If I keep catching them glancing/staring at me, there is some reason behind that. But I still wouldn't know the reason unless if they give me other cues that tell me what the context of the glancing/staring is. I'd say 90% of the time, women are just looking or are intrigued/curious (but not interested).
     
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