Massimo2002
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I will never forget one time my dad told me that he had sex with my mom and accidentally had me it's hurts still knowing that.
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Why do men and women have children by accident ?
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an anarchist
Your local anarchist.
To answer the title, sometimes you're drunk and the moment is right.
Have you ever been drunk? Serious question.
Have you ever been drunk? Serious question.
Massimo2002
Active Member
Nope I have never been drunk I have tasted alcohol but never To that point. But I have seen my mom drunk at times.
Massimo2002
Active Member
What an insulting thing to ask I will give you no answer for that.
That's fine. My intent wasn't to insult, I was just curious.
My oldest son was definitely an accident. I love him very much and I'm grateful for that accident.
I wasn't trying for a child at 20, but that doesn't mean I didn't want him.
We Never Know
No Slack
That unfortunate you were told that.
Not that it will make you feel better but back when I was a teen a friend of mine, his dad was a mean hateful SOB and I heard him tell his son, my friend, that he wished he had pulled out, shot him on the floor and stepped on him.
There are some inconsiderate mean hateful people in this ole world.
Twilight Hue
Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
I was born in the 1960s and from everything about me, my parents were probably rolling naked on the grass in Woodstock and not only did they accidentally had me, they actually got rid of me. Adoption alley.
So chipper up. Don't feel so bad about it.
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No Slack
That sux. But adoption is better than abortion.
Glad you are around to participate in our little world here on RF.
Twilight Hue
Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
Yeah, my point is no matter how miserable you might feel about something , you know that there's other people in far worse positions in this life.
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No Slack
Yep.
I remember my Mom saying to me on occasions, 'if you think you have it bad, look around and you will see others who have it worse'.
I've said that here several times, many times throughout life and will continue saying it until the day I die.
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Nothing against you. I see your point, look on the bright side.
But something about this analogy has always irked me
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It seems invalidating
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We Never Know
No Slack
Well... Look at it this way...
Bob has cancer and has two weeks to live.
Bill just died of cancer.
So is Bob worse than Bill?
That depends on how one looks at it.
Bob is still alive and can spend some more time with his family while Bill's family buries him.
On the other hand some Christians may say Bill is better off because he is now with god in heaven and he no longer suffers.
I reckon its all about perspective.
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Whether one is worse or not is besides the point imo, as we All have problems, and therefore the degree of which shouldn't matter as long as we all respect that.
GoodAttention
Well-Known Member
A mom can only have you, feed you, and raise you, on purpose.
That's why 100 men can say they are your father, but only one woman will call you their child.
The same goes for your father.
Twilight Hue
Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
It just means to appreciate the lot in your life, not that your life would necessarily be great but it could also be worse and in no way demeaning of any person who has more problems than you do.
We Never Know
No Slack
A mom can only have you, feed you, and raise you, on purpose.
Wrong!!
You are correct that only a mom can birth you but you are wrong because a man can feed you and raise you.
And before you go there, a lot of women can't breast feed. So there's that.
GoodAttention
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Of course a man can, my words are directed to OP, not the universe.
Only a person who didn't respect their own mother would go there.
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GoodAttention
Well-Known Member
I remain contently confused by your words.