If im not labled...where should i go to find people like me to discuss??
There is a wide variety of folks with diverse beliefs all over the forum. Just stay out of the blue DIR's (except to ask respectful questions) and you should be fine.
True... the green DIRs are much more liberal in posting rules. The basics are that if you have something meaningful and respectful to contribute, not only ask, it's OK to participate. The green DIRs seem to be the less traditional religions, and more open to various mixing. Seekers DIR is a perfect example.