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Where would you stand? (Mature)

Punnchy

Member
I've decided after several conversations with various members of the online virtual community that I'm apart of, to discuss this matter with you.

This isn't a matter to be taken lightly, but I'm under the impression that everyone will agree upon what should and can be done as well, but it is my personal choice not to move on in the matter beyond sharing it and seeing the reactions of others towards it. Lets begin.

I got to talking to a friend of mine on the grid about the subject of incest. There is a lot of role playing practices inside the game where these acts occur, be it within the second life families, the casual role-playing friends, or whichever circumstances would lead for the role playing of incest to occur. I am perfectly fine with this type of role play, have done so myself on some occasions and not really thought to much about it because it is actions that I would think would only occur with the digital world, and on a rare basis, just enough to make it fun to think about and do, but not overly taboo or frowned upon such as child avatars having sex.

By now you must be wondering what the problem is then, the OP is obviously okay with something that people do in second life all the time even though person beliefs of those reading and replying may be different, so what's the big deal then?

Then she being a 20 year old female, told me it wasn't just occurring within her second life. She'd become incestuous with her younger sister (18) and her mother (40-42), with the past several months. The interactions began occurring after a second life friend of mine and a member of her second life family, form what I was told convinced and encouraged the mother of these two to act sexually towards her children. I, having also spoken to the mother of the two, found out that the youngest girl (of 18) was most likely molested or raped by a male, most likely on her father's side of the family, but there was still speculation as to what had happened with the youngest daughter (she's not saying much to mom or her sister).

I believe that the mother used this as a leverage to, in some way, change her younger daughter's opinion of sexual interaction by being sexual with her, and then her older sister and encouraging the two of them to play with each other as well. Now while I think that its hot for two sisters to make out, I can't necessarily condone the story that the older sister told me in confidence as well about her and her younger sister's interactions.

Their logic, while extremely twisted, is pretty sound and is why this has been bothering me so much. They, like me, see sex as the strongest way, strongest bond, you can show for someone that you love, and that as long as the parties are willing and able and at the age of consent and understanding, that sexual occurrences, even with the family should occur.

It's twisted, it's sick, and moralistically and ethically for me, it's a touchy subject.
 

Father Heathen

Veteran Member
That's some ****** up **** right there. So the younger sister was raped, didn't report it, and the mother, instead of trying to contact law enforcement or get professional help for her daughter like a normal human being would, takes sexual advantage because of what some random retard suggested on some really crappy online video game? Even though they are consenting adults, this cannot be psychologically healthy.
 

Daniel09

Akera-Heru
I have a slightly psychologically challenging question. Would it be ok for 2 genetically unrelated, but growing up in the same family adopted children (from a baby) to become sexually active with each other? Does incest only have taboo allegations when it is with blood relation or with family relation?
 

Father Heathen

Veteran Member
I have a slightly psychologically challenging question. Would it be ok for 2 genetically unrelated, but growing up in the same family adopted children (from a baby) to become sexually active with each other? Does incest only have taboo allegations when it is with blood relation or with family relation?

Personally, as long as all involved are consenting adults (blood or not) then I'm of the opinion it should be their right (albeit it is a bit disturbing). However, in regards to the OP I definitely question the ethics of it given the younger daughters situation, with the manipulation and compounding of emotional/mental issues (and yet another rapist gets away scot-free).
 

Punnchy

Member
From what i found out after originally talking to the friend of the mother and stuff, is that she was approached with allowing the idea because they have an online mateship within the virtual inviroment, their online friend, said yes to the whole situation because she herself, told me she had been sexually active with her own mother at a younger age. Kinda made my skin crawl.
 

xkatz

Well-Known Member
All I can say is, those people need to get help, urgently. That is disturbing stuff IMO.
 

Daniel09

Akera-Heru
But honestly, if it causes no one any harm, what's truly wrong with it? They're adults, so it cannot be pedophilia.
 

xkatz

Well-Known Member
But honestly, if it causes no one any harm, what's truly wrong with it? They're adults, so it cannot be pedophilia.

Well there's nothing wrong w/ consensual sex (although incest is disturbing nonetheless). The problem seems to be that they are being sexual to show that they love her. There is no reason they need to do that. If they love her, they should seek help for her and try to support her. By engaging in sexual activities in this scenario, they are giving the youngest sister/daughter a false sense of love and security IMO.
 

Mister Emu

Emu Extraordinaire
Staff member
Premium Member
Without even getting into the issues involved in combining familial and sexual relationships...

to abuse the molestation of someone to get sex is already sick, but your own child... it makes me alternatively want to throw up and hurt someone...

You are friends with some seriously ****** up people.
 

Kathryn

It was on fire when I laid down on it.
BACK AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER.

I believe that "second lives" can be just as real "morally" as your "real" life. What I mean by that is that some role playing can be morally degrading over time, and can influence and impact your life by manifesting in some very real ways.

Take for instance, online affairs. They can be just as damaging to a marriage as a "real" affair. And they can also morph into real affairs. The line blurs quickly between real life and online life.

As for these people - I'd say the less you interact with them, the better. They sound like losers.

Have you checked for their photos on peopleofwalmart.com? They're probably all over that site!
 

Punnchy

Member
BACK AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER.

I believe that "second lives" can be just as real "morally" as your "real" life. What I mean by that is that some role playing can be morally degrading over time, and can influence and impact your life by manifesting in some very real ways.

Take for instance, online affairs. They can be just as damaging to a marriage as a "real" affair. And they can also morph into real affairs. The line blurs quickly between real life and online life.

As for these people - I'd say the less you interact with them, the better. They sound like losers.

Have you checked for their photos on peopleofwalmart.com? They're probably all over that site!

I actually back away from the computer quite often, and I know all to well how a second life relationship can manifest itself into a real world one. I've lived with people I've met through the virtual enviroment and have learned life lessons because of it. Now its a social interaction substituion tool because of my inability to socials from the O/N work, at ironically get this, walmart.

I've actually talked to a couple of people who have stories that are just as saddening as the one I've told about the virtual environment people.
 
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