But you agree that it is a non-trivial private matter, right?
Having your privacy exposed for everyone to see, without your consent, is not socially acceptable in both of our societies, right? It is to be expected that it could cause harm.
I agree that it is not a non-trivial matter and I agree that exposing a persons private information without their consent is seen by many as being socially unacceptable. The question becomes, do we make it unlawful for a person to do anything that most people find socially unacceptable? Most people find it socially unacceptable if others don't bathe regularly. Does that mean that I should be able to sue someone if I find their body odor offensive? I guess the question becomes does it do 'harm'? Depends on how you define harm. I could claim that I was harmed because the body odor made me lose my appetite for the rest of the day. Should I be able to sue because of that 'harm'? Yes, I missed a meal or two, but what REAL harm was caused? And yes, I can say I was embarrassed by what someone else revealed about me... but what REAL harm is there in experiencing embarrassment? Is it a level of 'harm' that people should be able to sue over in a court of law?
The problem with this idea is that it places the responsibility on every person to somehow know what will or will not embarrass everyone else. That's simply not a reasonable expectation.
So what do we do about people who do things that most find to be socially unacceptable? If the acts cause what everyone can agree upon is genuine harm, we outlaw the activity. However if it's something like your BO caused me to lose my appetite OR you constantly tell people things about me that embarrasses me, we deal with it differently. The person who never bathes never gets asked to go anywhere with anyone, they become a social pariah that everyone avoids. If you're the type of person who is constantly embarrassing others by revealing personal information, you'll quickly find that no one wants to interact with you or tell you anything about themselves. You become a social pariah that everyone avoids.
I want your take on this case: It is reasonable to imagine that having a nude picture of oneself exposed in the web could cause distress. But it is not a fact that it necessarily would. Considering it is impossible to know for a fact one way or the other before it is done, should the victim ever be able to ask for restitution for the damage caused?
It all depends on where the picture came from and how the person who posted it online got their hands on it. IF the picture was taken with my consent and I gave a copy of it to the person who posts it online then no, I shouldn't be able to sue, even if they promised me that they wouldn't. If I choose to give a nude photo to someone that isn't trustworthy, then that's on me. If I didn't want to face the possibility of being embarrassed then I shouldn't have let the picture be taken and I certainly shouldn't have given it to anyone else. It's called personal responsibility. If I do something that I'm embarrassed by I have to accept the reality that I might get embarrassed if the embarrassing thing I did becomes common knowledge.