I guess that is your take.No greater love hath a man etc, is a well known
thing from all cultures.
"God", whether it exists or not, is not "man".
Temporarily spinning off a tiny bit of himself,
in order to let someone "kill" it, as a payment
to himself for when others break his own
rules is kinda weird.
But it does not remotely show that this
"god" loves others more than it does itself.
Since He took all sins and went to Hell and paid for it as a man with who knows what payment it entails, and I've never been there to find out, to me is a show of love... but there are all types of people with different viewpoints. Some people think love is when you buy something.
Apparently, for you, it is feeding your cat.