exchemist
Veteran Member
My point is nothing to do with where it is done. It concerns by whom it is done.Completely disagree.
Marriage is a contract, and people should be trained to properly execute it. That's it.
If those people are religious, or non-religious, I could care less, and choice in the matter is great.
But the 'trustworthiness' of the organisation doesn't impact on the knowledge of the individual providing the service.
Just have a licensing requirement.
Full disclosure, I was married in a non-religious ceremony held at a winery. It was a pretty traditional wedding in a lot of ways, if you take out all mention of God, or churches. We had readings, etc.
We didn't have to go separately to a registry office, or jump through some other hoop. We just got married.
Somebody brought the papers, checked the witnesses were there, made sure you both understood what you were signing, ensured all the requisite signatures were obtained and took responsibility for filing the papers with the registry authorities. That would have been somebody acting in a licensed capacity, because scam marriages and forced marriages are far from unknown. They don't just licence anyone who asks. So who was this licensed person, in your case? Someone from the Town Hall, perhaps?