Jealous issue continued
Sex can be similar to this world just as food is similar, but it can also have unseen reality aspects that bring us closer to God, and that get augmented too and bring us closer to God more so over time and so it's reality doesn't cease to change, while containing similar to past like the food. From this perspective, the houralayn, can augment us, and in turn when we receive such augmentation from all of them, the wife who is most beautiful out of all them, can also perhaps receive all that unseen augmentation when have sex with her. This constant cycle can be a way to get us closer to God. And again wife enjoying God's RISQ and Light, while we have to have sex more, maybe a reward to her and honor for her, and doesn't have to be seen as a negative thing. In fact, if God is seen as highest reward and most pleasurable thing is his love, then it has to be seen this way in reality.
There maybe a hidden wisdom of this that we don't perceive and yet are to appreciate.
I'm saying sex doesn't have to be unholy. It can get holy and bring us closer to God in the next.