So, I just found out my grandma has stopped eating and her body has started shutting down. She's in her 80s, so she is kind of at a vulnerable time in her life. I'm going to go to see her the day after tomorrow.
My grandpa has issues with control. He has to be in control of situations at all times, no matter what that situation is. He's taken control of my grandma's eating habits, has been shoving food in her face, and she's gotten sick of it. Not only that, but my aunt has been telling her what she should and should not be eating. You see, my aunt is a naturopathic expert, and she has my grandma inhaling fumes from an essential oil machine to help her cure what ails her. She's told her she needs to stay away from nutritional supplements because they are full of sugar. My grandma isn't listening to anyone at this point, and is just giving up. She would rather die at home than go to the hospital, cause she's afraid that she'd never leave if she went.
Here's the thing; I am a dietitian tech. It's my job to help people heal via the food they eat and to get them recover enough to waltz out of the hospital under their own strength. I primarily help the elderly in this regard.
I feel like my aunt has been poisoning the well, and now it's going to be impossible to try to talk to my grandma about drinking supplements because of the sugar my aunt tells her is the enemy... Like, what's gonna happen? Is adult onset diabetes gonna sneak up on my grandma and snap her neck out of nowhere in her 80s like a ninja? You know what's worse than contracting diabetes? Dying of malnutrition or dying because the body just up and gave out. I see it happen almost every time I go to work.
I think when I see her, I'll just keep things real low key and not try to tell her what she should do... I think I'll just visit and before I leave I'll just let her know that as a dietitian tech, I help people recover every day I work. I'll let her know that I got her some nutritional supplements if she wants them, and that she can call me if she wants some dietary advice.
What is everyone else's thoughts on this?
My grandpa has issues with control. He has to be in control of situations at all times, no matter what that situation is. He's taken control of my grandma's eating habits, has been shoving food in her face, and she's gotten sick of it. Not only that, but my aunt has been telling her what she should and should not be eating. You see, my aunt is a naturopathic expert, and she has my grandma inhaling fumes from an essential oil machine to help her cure what ails her. She's told her she needs to stay away from nutritional supplements because they are full of sugar. My grandma isn't listening to anyone at this point, and is just giving up. She would rather die at home than go to the hospital, cause she's afraid that she'd never leave if she went.
Here's the thing; I am a dietitian tech. It's my job to help people heal via the food they eat and to get them recover enough to waltz out of the hospital under their own strength. I primarily help the elderly in this regard.
I feel like my aunt has been poisoning the well, and now it's going to be impossible to try to talk to my grandma about drinking supplements because of the sugar my aunt tells her is the enemy... Like, what's gonna happen? Is adult onset diabetes gonna sneak up on my grandma and snap her neck out of nowhere in her 80s like a ninja? You know what's worse than contracting diabetes? Dying of malnutrition or dying because the body just up and gave out. I see it happen almost every time I go to work.
I think when I see her, I'll just keep things real low key and not try to tell her what she should do... I think I'll just visit and before I leave I'll just let her know that as a dietitian tech, I help people recover every day I work. I'll let her know that I got her some nutritional supplements if she wants them, and that she can call me if she wants some dietary advice.
What is everyone else's thoughts on this?